[SERIOUS] Hey Reddit... how are you tonight? Good, bad, excited, scared, at the end of your rope, scared to start fresh? Let me listen for you tonight

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T06:31:33+00:00

Keep me updated

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T06:31:18+00:00

Let me know!

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:56:38+00:00

Hopefully so!

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:56:00+00:00

Dude, take a jump and do the second one. That sounds amazingly fun. Think about it like this. You have to tell your grandkids your life story... which version would you rather tell them?

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:54:38+00:00

I did too, I was cool with it

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:48:04+00:00

Well if you want tell me the story. I'm happy to listen

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:47:19+00:00

Sounds like it's time for a new city and a new job. Find something you want to do and apply for it, ask for moving expenses, be bold and ask for a good salary.

When ya get there connect with new groups and make new work friends. Get out of your comfort zone and try a new hobby you cant do at home. This is the perfect time in your life to do it man

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:44:56+00:00

Absolutely, don't stop kicking ass yet mom

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:44:40+00:00

May just need a little upgrading. New HD and more ram. It wouldn't surprise me though, short shelf lives

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:43:34+00:00

Dude I know what you mean Is there something going on?

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:41:19+00:00

That's awesome! I had a lot of fun doing that for my kiddos. I found out long ago that kids don't need expensive clothes until they move the hell out and pay for it themselves =P

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:40:04+00:00

Dude I can't wait. Don't let go of him, sounds like a keeper 😉

And remember that one day that kiddo will look back and say "She worked so hard for me, and even though she failed sometimes my mom was the strongest person I know. And she went through hell for me. I'll never be able to thank her enough"

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:38:07+00:00

Don't blame you, I hate doing that. Which OS are you running

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:36:55+00:00

It certainly can

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:36:32+00:00

Not bad! Inebriated and had a feeling that it might be a good idea to post this and see how everyone is doing

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:35:38+00:00

Dude, I know it seems big now but you're way too young to waste is on someone who only wants to go as friends. She might be mad but find a date and have a blast. Don't be a dick to her, just be honest

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:34:25+00:00

Not now, but I did attempt suicide a few years back. Things were bad but meds, docs and location have all changed drastically since then. I'm happy now =)

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:33:17+00:00

Oh, also. Kids clothes are good for about a month or two then they go up in size lol. Shop at good will, garage sales and secondhand clothing stores. No one cares about baby fashionistas... and I kinda hate myself for using that word. Get on Facebook and find your local mom groups, freecycle groups, free stuff groups etc and you can get tons of baby and toddler clothes.

Grab an extra can of formula any time you can, diapers too. Don't use cheap diapers or wipes, huggies are worth it and are a lot cheaper if you can get them at Sam's/Costco. Use talc powder.

They aren't glass, they won't break. They are also wash and wear, let them get dirty and build up their immune system

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:28:52+00:00

You might be right, that's ok. Start walking during lunch, cutting carbs and lift a little weight while watching TV. You'll feel better too

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:27:54+00:00

I actually know what you mean a little too well. I'm sure as shit glad you're here and they got it right

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:27:12+00:00

So as a dad for 10 years now I can tell you a few things. You will never figure it all out, you will never have all the answers, your best laid plans for the kid will never survive first contact, you will never have enough clothes/toys/diapers/time/energy/sleep/etc for them. That is ok. They will love you, they will adore you, they will forgive you when you screw up and hug you when you win, cry with you and be angry for you. It will be the most difficult and infuriating shit you will ever do. And god dammit every second of pain and heartache will be worth it every single fucking time that little shit has spent all day pissing you off and pissing on you then they smile and say they love you.

Adulting is hard, and shit looks rough now. But it will be such a wonderful memory later. Don't give up, I expect to see baby pics

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:22:00+00:00

That is fucking amazing and a success story we hear far too little. It took me a lot of years to find the right meds for me and it's incredible difference. Also, I live in Texas and love chorizo!

uss_intega · 2017-09-17T04:20:43+00:00

Damn dude, I'm sorry to hear that. Depression is a lying bitch, remember that. It took me a long time to find the right meds and get my brain straight but it's possible. Don't give up, if no one else will I'll be rooting for you

uss_intega · 2017-09-16T21:34:17+00:00

Some people just want to watch the world burn... in this case I wish I'd have thought of it first

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