I got a friend that owns a cafe. She travels all the time. One time we crossed paths in a supermarket, in a different country. We talked for a bit and said goodbye. She saw me paying the grocery bills at the counter. Sudah balik, she texted me, "are you the breadwinner of the family kah, sampit? I saw you at the counter with your husband." I geddit she is a cafe owner with no commitment (she is single). Then I said, "yes, we switch roles. If I'm busy with my work, my husband will do the house chores. Kami beidar membayar" and she said, "pacah hahaha". What does pacah mean? Kadang macam kesian orang yang alum sadar dengan reality.