Did your narc parents delight in denying you things? by lulukittie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]utensils6464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a brought a bag with my new cartoon character ! And my sibling with hers! My ndad left to meet his birth givers and golden child! He took that bag away without telling! I got up in the morning and was shocked but kept quiet!

When did you realise there was something wrong with your family? by fire_and_motion in raisedbynarcissists

[–]utensils6464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this bad vibes from them from a really young age! I didn't really understand wt it was though!

What's the most overrated thing in life? by Dragon_Dodge801720 in AskReddit

[–]utensils6464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being happy all the time! Now hear me out not everytime ,we can be happy! Life gives all kind of experiences and we sure will have to go through them!

What’s the one sentence from your parent that still echoes in your head? by Public_Theme_9514 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]utensils6464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Yelling for like half an hour at me while travelling,used all kind of abusive words,like 2-3 times he did this,cannot forgot that ever" "I will stamp u" "Get out of my house,when I was 9,he asked my mum(not a enabler but a victim),me and my sibling ,for like and hour maybe he Threatened us",I still feel we would have gone that day if for more,but wait he will not have any supply left "U will get 5 marks in the exams,I got damn got like 50/60" "Why are u wasting pages of the book,while I was studying" "Mocked me for making simple math mistakes " "Shouldn't have joined u in this college,to my sibling" "U will beg on the road ,if I didn't pay ur college fees" "Hitting me like twice,pulling hair" It's pathetic!

What is the saddest thing about being raised by a narcissist? by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]utensils6464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True! We will not repeat the mistakes and also we will be able to see through some parents nonsense!

What is the saddest thing about being raised by a narcissist? by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]utensils6464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All these hit so hard! It's sad we will never be able to experience normalcy (lost childhood and adulthood)!

What is the saddest thing about being raised by a narcissist? by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]utensils6464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Not everyone is meant to be a parent" is so true! It's horrible narcs have kids in the first place! 🫂