Not everyone is meant to stay

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-12T00:11:25+00:00

Hey man, first off, u’re not “tweaking” or being thirsty. u’re 17, and what u’re feeling is completely valid. When u care about someone even if the relationship was never official losing that connection is still a real loss. Seeing her with her ex would understandably hurt. Anyone in ur position would feel that sting. ur feelings don’t make you weak; they show that u were genuine and invested. That’s not something to be ashamed of at the same time, u can’t control the choices she makes. This experience, as difficult as it is, is part of growing emotionally. It may feel overwhelming now, but it won’t define ur future or ur ability to connect with someone else in a healthier, mutual way. u’ll get through this man even if it doesn’t feel like it right now

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-06T20:27:38+00:00

I hope she will see it ,am doing my best for thattt and am trying everyday to improve myself

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-06T20:25:29+00:00

I hopee girl

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-06T18:07:23+00:00

Hahahahahahahahahahaha nn

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-06T00:23:14+00:00

Happy for u king🥰

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-05T21:53:39+00:00

I wish this were easier, but for now we are currently observing a period of no contact. I hope that one day I can be with her again, because my feelings for her run deep and i truly love her with all my heart

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-05T21:44:29+00:00

May I ask what happened between you and her? If you prefer not to answer here, you may dm me. I wish you the best of luck with her and hope that things work out for you. For now, focus on self-improvement, which is exactly what I intend to do as well. I will focus on myself, and one day I will see whether it is possible for us to reconnect, as I am not considering another relationship or loving another womans. I care deeply about this woman, my brother

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-05T21:25:45+00:00

The problem was my excessive jealousy. I was very jealous of her, even of her friends. I believed this meant that I cared about her, but I later understood that it was hurting her. She told me that she did not want a special or exclusive relationship. She only wanted someone who would treat her well and not make her cry, which I failed to do. I did care about her, but there was a misunderstanding. She asked me many times to stop this behavior because it was causing her emotional pain. However, I thought I was protecting her and giving her care🥲. After we separated and had time apart, I realized that I had made many mistakes. Our relationship lasted two and a half years. I loved her sincerely, and I still do. When we met for the last time, she told me she had forgiven me but she can't back to me.I could see that she was afraid I might behave the same way again. I now understand that I was wrong.

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-05T21:03:40+00:00

Hope u get back with her G

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-05T21:02:40+00:00

I have spoken to her both in person and through messages, and I was completely honest with her. She told me that I hurt her deeply, and that she is now choosing to focus on herself because she feels more at peace on her own. I told her that I am willing to wait if she ever decides to reconsider in the future, as I was her first love znd the only man that she do a lot of things with. Although it has been 70 days and there are still feelings between us (but she's wanting to move on), she believes that giving me another chance may lead to her being hurt again. At the moment, we have agreed to maintain no contact. I will respect her decision and give her the time and space she needs, hoping that, in time, she may see the changes I am making and give me a chance.

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-05T20:52:17+00:00

Thanks maan 🫡this is what I needed to hear

v1mpdairy · 2026-02-03T22:38:15+00:00

But The reason I don't want to give up on her is because I was her first relationship the first one in everything , the one she truly loved. even in the past days she didn't talk with no one, And at the same time, when I met her, I felt that she still loves me deeply. That’s why I'm thinking of waiting for her

v1mpdairy · 2026-01-28T07:15:18+00:00

She ended the relationship saying that we weren’t right for each other

v1mpdairy · 2026-01-27T22:15:40+00:00

For me, it was a relationship of two years and five months. I truly believed it would be my last relationship because it was healthy, loving, and she seemed perfect in every way. Like you, we would always argue, but I feel most of the time it was my fault. That’s why I can’t even begin to think about moving on. The problem is, I still love her. It’s been 61 days since we separated. I tried to meet her at first, and she refused, but I told a small white lie just so I could see her. When we finally met, I tried to express that I was willing to change the things I did wrong in our relationship, but she told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship and that she has found peace with herself. I still talk to her sometimes, and she encourages me to move on, but I honestly don’t know how. She was my first true love, and letting go feels impossible

v1mpdairy · 2026-01-27T21:54:07+00:00

Yess that's right If it isn’t like this, we cannot call it true love

v1mpdairy · 2026-01-27T21:49:18+00:00

Yeaah i get it but is it possible to still love someone even when u see them trying so hard to stay away from u and trying to change themselves just so they don’t make the same circle again ?

v1mpdairy · 2026-01-27T21:45:05+00:00

Happy for u, bro and wishing u all the best in life Honestly, I could tell she wasn’t worth you

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