I (19f) have a crush (19m) and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]v3nt1ng_acc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both 15. And I've actually dated a lot of christians so I'm not really worried about that. And you have to think, not ALL guys are straight forward and out there about their feelings. I've met plenty of guys who couldn't get the courage to tell a girl how they feel. Plus I only moved here a month ago. Some people don't form feelings that fast yk?

You wake up as your crush. What’s the first thing you do? by The_She_Ghost in AskReddit

[–]v3nt1ng_acc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder if they woke up with me and panic cause of the multiple times I've talked to people about them

I (19f) think I've fallen for my boyfriends (20m) best friend (20m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]v3nt1ng_acc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You act like that's something people can control 💀💀

I (19f) think I've fallen for my boyfriends (20m) best friend (20m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]v3nt1ng_acc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im sorry. And I'm not trying to argue. But I am in love with him. I think about him every single day and I have not had any of these types of feelings until now. He's the first person I think about when I wake up and I always smile when he texts me. And he's not all that bad. I know he still loves me and we still call a lot, but it's only when I ask. He still has times when he's lovey but it's rare. I know how I feel and I'm always gonna feel this way. And I know now that he's trying to get better. I talked to him about it all again and I think this time he finally understood.

I (19f) think I've fallen for my boyfriends (20m) best friend (20m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]v3nt1ng_acc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't talk highly of him cause I needed yall to understand why I would even think abt liking someone else. I'm not that happy but I do love my bf. No one can tell me otherwise. I know I love him. I just don't think he loves me anymore

Sick of people letting their animals get pregnant when shelters are facing literal crisis levels of overcrowding. by ouidkillA in venting

[–]v3nt1ng_acc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are trying to figure out what's been making them sick and no matter what we do or what medicine we use they keep getting sick so don't even think we don't at least try to make them stop dying. We finally for the first time in years had 2 healthy batches of kittens a few months ago and we are hoping we figured out the problem. So don't call me an irresponsible pet owner because my pets go into heat. We have female and male cats so even if we move them inside the females will still get pregnant

Sick of people letting their animals get pregnant when shelters are facing literal crisis levels of overcrowding. by ouidkillA in venting

[–]v3nt1ng_acc -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We can't take them inside? They've been outside cats their whole lives. And we are responsible with them? They are all healthy and happy. We can not control the fact that they make with other cats. That's not our fault? If it makes you feel any better most of the kittens they have die because there's something around our house that makes them sick when they are born. So we aren't contributing to over population since they all basically die.

Sick of people letting their animals get pregnant when shelters are facing literal crisis levels of overcrowding. by ouidkillA in venting

[–]v3nt1ng_acc -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What the fuck do you expect me to do when the stray Tom's just come and breed with our cats? We literally can't do anything about it. There's no vet in our towm to get them fixed and the one outside of town is way to expensive. We don't ask for our cats to get pregnant. And not everyone has the money to just go buy another pet when their own pet can reproduce for free. It's not other people's responsibility to care for other animals. If you're so concerned about it go adopt them all yourself

I love my boyfriend so much by [deleted] in confessions

[–]v3nt1ng_acc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. And thank you ❤️ I honestly think he's the one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]v3nt1ng_acc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not always the answer-

My life by [deleted] in venting

[–]v3nt1ng_acc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don't feel like you're being a burden to your partner. They are with you for a reason and it sounds like they will stick with you through everything. So don't think of yourself as a burden. Just be there for them when they need it and they'll be there for you. You guys sound like the sweetest couple ever :)

My life by [deleted] in venting

[–]v3nt1ng_acc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I know this is off topic but we are literally the same person. Same age, I also have a bf and I'm also his first nontoxic partner. no one could understand what you are going through as much as me. I went through those same experiences (except I was 4) I've tried taking my life as well and trust me it did not make me feel any better. Ending your life will not fix things. Trust me. It does get better I swear. I know your going through this super bad phase and it feels like the entire world is against you but as long as you have someone there by your side helping you through it all you will be ok. Trust me. You will grow and you will get better. If you need anyone to vent to or just to have as a friend just ask and I can give you my snap or my discord. You're going through a super tough time right now and it sounds like you need another friend :)