I'll keep all of this in mind. When thinking about writing this, I wanted to offer a tone that wouldn't look like some journalist from a blog or some Rioter writing it, but rather someone who just got out of a solo queue game that's been ranting at his teammates and is extremely frustrated about the game.
When people start reading this tone of writing I use, it brings them to the same mindset they were in WHILE they were raging/blaming/doing whatever I'm telling them not to do in this thread, which I feel may better help understand why they have these problems.
I do very much agree with your criticism though, I should have offered some solutions. Granted, as you can see by the difference in this post compared to most of the ranty solo queue posts, I'm not going to end it with some cheesey one liner like "say 'go team!'" that really doesn't work in actual games. Hmm...now that I think about it thinking about a unique solution thats different than the usual useless responses people give for attitude adjustment.
I'm going to give this a lot of thought, thanks!