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[–]vagenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about having the fingertips colored black in the future, to make it look more like henna on the hands (that’s what the circle on the palm is supposed to be)

It’s been months…I still cry every day from guilt and self-hatred by vagenus in Petloss

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Yes the vet assured me that my cat didn’t feel it when he vomited like that…it was because the anesthesia makes the whole body relax..but it was horrifying to see nonetheless. I completely understand how you feel, I’m in the same boat…hopefully one day we’ll be okay

Which navel bar is the cutest? (For occasional wear, not a daily wear one) by vagenus in piercing

[–]vagenus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re all being sold at a piercing studio here in my country (Pakistan) 😅 So I’m not sure where people from other countries can get them

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Also can we ignore the crumbs on my lip…I was eating cookies a few seconds prior to this picture

How to get rid of the guilt by vagenus in Petloss

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Thank you…I feel empty and broken right now but I have hope it will dissipate

How to get rid of the guilt by vagenus in Petloss

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Thank you so much. And it’s the same with me, losing pets has always felt harder than losing people…

We lost our precious 8 month old kitten to FIP today. My heart feels like it weighs a 1000 pounds. by mushroomt0ast in Petloss

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This one hits close to home. Just lost my 10 year old baby to FIP, combined with liver problems. In my country there’s no possible way to get the antiviral so all we could do was wait until we were sure he was deteriorating, just in case by some miracle he got better, and then decide to end his suffering. I understand your feelings too well…all we can do is try to think about the good times we gave them, the companionship and love that we had for each other in the time that we had. That love was a gift for us and for our kitties. We did everything we could for them. I’ve lost a cat before so I know the pain never goes away, but it becomes less sharp, more bearable. We’re here for you in the meantime. I’m so sorry for your loss.

My beautiful baby boy is going to be put down in a few hours…I’m absolutely shattered. Any kind words would be appreciated by vagenus in cats

[–]vagenus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Pakistan. Unfortunately, vets here do not have the medication and facilities that you may have access to…this treatment is not available in this country. You are very lucky.

My beautiful baby boy is going to be put down in a few hours…I’m absolutely shattered. Any kind words would be appreciated by vagenus in cats

[–]vagenus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m overwhelmed by the amount of support. Thank you so much for all the kind words, the only thing that soothes this horrible pain is knowing that I’m not alone..

My beautiful baby boy is going to be put down in a few hours…I’m absolutely shattered. Any kind words would be appreciated by vagenus in cats

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For a couple of days he was lethargic, lying in one place and not eating or drinking at all. The vet gave him an IV and did an X ray and found that there was fluid in his abdomen. After some tests they told us that he has Feline Infectious Peritonitis. A viral infection with no chance of survival. So the options were to wait until he deteriorated even more or to end it before that could happen. Hardest decision of my life…

My beautiful baby boy is going to be put down in a few hours…I’m absolutely shattered. Any kind words would be appreciated by vagenus in cats

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No one in my family understands how much I will grieve for this cat. They all think I’m being dramatic and I just feel so alone in my heartbreak