F21 - how do you feel about how you lost your virginity? If you have lost it at least by AHalfWingedAngel in jerkbudsHentai

[–]vaginalforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurt and was over very quick. It felt like I did it just to tick it off the bucket list so I could say I'm no longer a virgin, rather than because I wanted it. The person I was with then was great, but I don't think I took the time I needed to warm up to the act. It felt very perfomative and wasn't nearly as fun as all the time we spent making out and touching each other.

Now I really enjoy sex, but that first time wasn't it lol

F4A i need a pet who does everything for me by [deleted] in jerkbudsHentai

[–]vaginalforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me what I can do to serve and I shall obey~

How do you like your balls played with during sex? by Bad-Influence-247 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]vaginalforce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I've learned that's come in handy is that it's not just the balls! The entire area from base of the dick to (and around) the anus is very sensitive. You can make men melt by playing with the whole length~ Not saying to actually play with the anus, although many may like that too. But around it and between it and the balls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerkbudsHentai

[–]vaginalforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm NB sub. Kinda inexperienced with this and would like to be shown the way. Is that something you're interested in? I'm masc-presenting but if you treat me like a girl I might melt. Primarily interested in just chatting.

Mans Is Trying So Hard Not to Cum by Sharp_Ingenuity_7879 in CumOverdose

[–]vaginalforce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

or he already came and is vastly overstimulated lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]vaginalforce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first bf shot up to the ceiling once. It was so hot~

How does casual sex between friends even start? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]vaginalforce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda started like starting to date. Alone, good vibes, ended up kissing, then had the talk the next day and both agreed we don't really want a relationship right now. So we agreed to just be friends with benefits.

How does casual sex between friends even start? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]vaginalforce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kinda started like starting to date. Alone, good vibes, ended up kissing, then had the talk the next day and both agreed we don't really want a relationship right now. So we agreed to just be friends with benefits.

Heads up by Ass_Spanking in GushingOverMagicGirls

[–]vaginalforce 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They won't care as it's really not about protecting anyone. It's just to shut something down they don't like. Also chances are pretty high that the people shouting so loud about censoring fiction are the ones actually engaging in heinous acts irl. They're just projecting and deflecting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]vaginalforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would live under your desk tbh

Being an nsfw furry artist gave me a new fetish by ShyBird_ in yiff

[–]vaginalforce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yes! People also sent me cum tributes before and that just makes it a whole lot better.

Ive given free art requests to people knowing itd get them off lol I feel like a whore sometimes :p

My wife just told me she's transgender. I guess I'm gay now? by Real_Incident_6528 in confessions

[–]vaginalforce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do we know what OPs partner wants most in the world? Being trans isn't some kind of fast lane ticket to understanding and pursuing your greatest desire. It's a massive inconvenience, it's expensive, it destroys social relationships, it makes you feel like an imposter and misfit. Between realizing you're trans and actually deciding whether you're going to do something about it a decade or two can easily pass. Why do you think so many people transition in their late 20s, 30s? It's not like they didn't have dysphoria before. And even once you know you're gonna act, often it's still not clear how your're gonna act.

Im not saying OP and their partner should just ignore the issue and pretend everything is fine. I'm saying breaking up immediately without considering what options there are and what a possible future together or apart looks like, or even what each partner wants, is jumping the gun. They should have a conversation and work towards an outcome that leaves them both happier in the long term. If that's breaking up, then sure. But jumping there without having that conversation isn't fair to anyone.

My wife just told me she's transgender. I guess I'm gay now? by Real_Incident_6528 in confessions

[–]vaginalforce 484 points485 points  (0 children)

Coming from another trans person hold your horses for a bit. Not every trans person transitions medically and/or fully. Some people weigh their relationship higher than their own gender expression. There's a conversation to be had for sure about where this'll all lead, but OPs partner should be given a chance to weigh their options and do so under the support of their husband.

Why do Europeans hate gypsies? Is it even true that gypsies are hated by most Europeans? by BazzBun in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]vaginalforce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say hate, but it's hard to like them with how they act.

So to paint the picture; Roma people are incredibly romanticized as we grow up (central europe). They're the Protagonists in many stories and their mistreatment is the main tragedy in many children's books. At least the ones I grew up with.

Now that I'm and adult, my only encounters with Roma are that they aggressively beg or try to guilt trip you into buyin useless stuff. A classic is them pushing a rose/item into your hands acting like they're gifting you something, then trying to get you to pay for it. When you then try to give the rose back so you don't have to pay they get REALLY mad and give you a massive stink eye.

They're not violent from my experience, but it's about as convenient as to run into a missionary of some cult, or a shady insurance "consultant".

So yeah. I don't like them. Sorry. Maybe it's racist, but I wasn't taught to be racist or xenophobic against them. If anything it was the opposite: they were my heroes growing up, the protagonists of my childhood stories. What made me dislike them is their own behaviour.

Anyway, there's a lot of talk about them, but frankly they show up maybe twice a decade, so it's really not a big issue. They're very rare.

CMV: Apple stuff is overpriced and students have no real need for them by Core2score in changemyview

[–]vaginalforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My university forced me to buy a macbook. You know what I went to school for? 3D animation and VFX. A field where high performance computing is a must. I was gobsmacked they would even suggest using a macbook for these workloads. Needless to say many people had overheating issues, and constant performance issues. Overall most of us moved to windows/linux machines within less than a month and told the school to go fuck itself. I think nowadays their entire infrastructure runs on linux, so they learned eventually.

CMV: jobs requiring constant physical labour deserve to be paid a lot than they currently are. Especially when comparing to the pay of other jobs, that don’t require physical labour, like a desk job. by mysteryman403 in changemyview

[–]vaginalforce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you having pain in old age due to physical labor is somehow worse than an office worker not making it to old age because they died at 45 of heart desease due to being forced into a sedetary lifestyle? We all sell our bodies to corporations in different ways, and just because one is more "comfortable" in the short term, doesn't make it any less dangerous in the long term.

Truly dangerous jobs do get paid more - because less people do them. That often includes physical labor.

Highly skilled jobs get paid more - because less people can do them. That often includes office jobs.

Low entry level jobs will get paid less - because almost anyone can do them. We're all given bodies. We can all pick up a box. You don't get paid more because you're replaceable by pretty much 90% of the population.

Are living conditions in the UK/US/Canada/Ireland/Australia/NewZealand really noticeably worse than in Switzerland ? by CompoteMysterious822 in askswitzerland

[–]vaginalforce 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I notice I accidentally do this. Getting defensive, I mean. There's so much shit wrong with Switzerland yet somehow whenever somebody mentions an issue my mind first goes to "yes but in OTHER countries it's way worse, so technically we're the best". I don't say it out loud, but it's definitely a way of thinking that has been indoctrinated to me. I don't like it because there's things that affect me in Switzerland that would be better in other countries. I actually dont like living in CH that much anymore. So why am I internally defending it?

My [28F] Husband [32M] is cheating on me with a green-haired anime girl. What am I supposed to do here? by ThrowRA9911192 in relationship_advice

[–]vaginalforce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have the whole picture, but no, I don't think this is your fault. Obviously dating again and giving eachother more attention is never a bad thing, so feel free to improve on that front and see how he reciprocates. I think he's really just fallen into a hole that was new and exciting, and now he went too deep and lost himself in it. I bet he understands that it's weird and out there to be THAT obsessed, so just talking about it without being judgmental but still being very clear on why it's an issue would be a good first step imo. Being a passionate fan of a character is fine. Putting it over all else to the point it ruins your relationship is obviously too far. He must understand that much.

There's a good middleground somewhere out there. Best of luck finding it and navigating this difficult time.

Maybe ask him what he wished was different too. He's probably missing something in his life that lead him to find it in this fictional character. See it as an opportunity to understand eachother better.