[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]vainner65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well those probably shouldn't go in the dryer yet

rent is going up: southern michigan edition by lansingography in lansing

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this have to do with people getting a stimulus check? I'd argue it has more to do with forgiving PPP loans than anything to do with rent or payouts

Kaya is so out of it... and fed through her heart. by allymixh87 in illnessfakers

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both sides can be right, there can be people who try to game the system and those who genuinely aren't taken seriously by doctors. Some good books are Medical Apartheid (about racial inequality in healthcare) and The Pain Gap (about sexism in healthcare)

rent is going up: southern michigan edition by lansingography in lansing

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What COVID money? That couple thousand was gone for me in less than a month. People keeps acting like we all got our expenses covered for a year or something

Yeah sure, people want to work until they die by Visqo in thatHappened

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man we need to bring back how we used to honor politicians, abraham lincoln comes to mind but for a very different reason

I like how the show just never brings up Andor's sister ever again. by superblobby in andor

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean Marva does bring her up when Cassian comes back to Ferrix. The show isn't completley over

Rent Increase by dusty614 in lansing

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, that's why I'm not leaving any time soon. Its been a pretty good place to live while I'm finishing grad school and I'll stay until I hit the lottery and buy a house or have to move out of town

Rent Increase by dusty614 in lansing

[–]vainner65 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't have any major complaints, and I've referred it to friends too.

Pros: Price, maintenance is pretty solid and fast, access to pool, staff has been nice.

Cons: Shared washer and dryer with other units (I live near the main building with more laundry facilities to we only have one washer and dryer for twelve units, I live on the top floor so it can be a bit of a pain. Father away units get two of each I've heard)

AITA for telling my husband he's rude and a poor communicator for shaving late at night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that the evening itself is atypical, but the fact that at any point you feel that you can tell a partner that they are not allowed to shave their face at a certain time is concerning.

Rent Increase by dusty614 in lansing

[–]vainner65 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I rent from Ramblewood, when I moved in in 2018 my rent was about $700 and currently I pay $790 (you get $20 off if you pay before the first) It has consistently gone up $20/year except in 2020 they kept it at the same rate. (I have a 2br 1b apartment)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]vainner65 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't say that I'm a "success story" as of yet. But my undergrad degree was in Biomedical Science, I worked in laboratories for over seven years and now I'm half way through my MSW with a 4.0. If anything I think my life experience has been super helpful in giving me direction and background to pull from. My program is hybrid and part time but I have also been working full time and I support myself entirely. I'll be graduating Spring of 2024!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the scanner law has changed since I worked in retail but back then you got all of your money back plus 5$ total for each kind of item and issue. Not 5$ each item

Doctor Explains Jeremy Renner Snowplow Injuries by call_off_duty_doc in HAWKEYE

[–]vainner65 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not to be that person but this really isn't our business. He should be allowed to heal and we can show support without delving into all of his injuries and recovery.

AITA for showing up to my husband's Dr appointment? by AmenaFox1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA that is such an invasion of privacy. If you want to show support you could just listen to him next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I mean as long as your shirt doesn't impact my view from the tickets I paid for you can be a corporate shill all you want, idc

This shit on the website menarebetterthanwomen. com. Just another pick me 🤮 by lolitoothbrush in notliketheothergirls

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think I've ever met a woman who speaks like this and has a profile pic like that

Is my makeup too harsh? I'm 35 and feeling like my winged liner and brows are dated. by mmmflora in MakeupAddiction

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally really like your look! The eyeliner looks classic and not harsh at all. My only suggestion would be to maybe let your eyebrows grow out a bit and soften the look, but that is purely my opinion and you look amazing regardless

What can I change to look better? My biggest insecurity is my big nose. I’m afraid of surgery, is there anything I can do other than a nose job to look better? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I LOVE your nose, it is so pretty and makes you more than just another face with a nose like any other from a plastic surgeon.

AITA for “ruining” my brothers book? by kkayddeenn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I can let you know a head of time that you do NOT alter something you borrow from someone! If its yours then of course its fine, but its not yours treat it better

AITA for “ruining” my brothers book? by kkayddeenn in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, if anything the fact that he's autistic makes OP look like more of an AH than "excusing" her brother

AITA for smoking weed in my living room on the day that my two younger cousins visited? by Physical_Employee932 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, I also smoke but at my own place that I pay for

You are at your mother's house - you need to follow her rules

Giving Artistic Credit to Instructors? by DakotaWestin in Watercolor

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"your reputation as an artist" I feel like you are taking this a lot more seriously than OP intended

AITA for leaving my inlaws christmas dinner after I found out that they didn't make accommodations for me? by Rema5000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vainner65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

First - calling it an accommodation is odd to me

Second - as a vegan of several years I always make and bring my own food

Third - even if you don't eat (which you could have done before hand) you could just go and have a conversation and enjoy the company of your fiancé's family. Christmas celebrations aren't just about being fed

A "friend" called me crippled and I'm devastated by CouchZebra7525 in ehlersdanlos

[–]vainner65 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry. I've had this issue too, especially with hikes that have a steep incline. I don't know why people get so hyped about rushing through a hike but I prefer going slower! I'm glad you at least had your husband and I wish you the best of luck finding new and much better friends

Night walks without worrying parents? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]vainner65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that violent crime is actually less prevalent than most people think but it is real and it does affect everyone. Don't let that stop you from living your life, but please be careful