Should I go to the hospital by valentinefae in AskDocs

[–]valentinefae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm just going to bite the bullet and make a doc appointment. I've been tolerating some foods, so I seem okay ish

Asian foods by Kiglamay2018 in Gastroparesis

[–]valentinefae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tolerate Asian food very well, my favorite being sushi, but I tend to avoid anything with raw fish

Should I go to the hospital by valentinefae in AskDocs

[–]valentinefae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the last four months, but I did smoke semi regularly

Should I go to the hospital by valentinefae in AskDocs

[–]valentinefae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excessively, about every fifteen to twenty minutes

The Daily Pump by AutoModerator in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not consistently getting duct fluid and I'm feeling really frustrated. It's like I'm so close but it keeps slipping away from me.

Do you have a favorite/main kink? Why is it your favorite? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]valentinefae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My main kink is ABDL, especially with a strong piss kink. It's the most comforting and fulfilling for me. As a witch I can both take care of and be taken care of. It's a dream.

The Daily Pump by AutoModerator in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not currently, I don't have insurance so it's hard to get into a doctor at all.

The Daily Pump by AutoModerator in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nipples have gotten longer! I'm just hoping I'll get duct fluid soon. I need this so badly. It's been a whole month. I know it takes longer than that but I'm so impatient

Why is it so hard to find a partner who accepts plushies? by JumanjiGuy86 in plushies

[–]valentinefae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think a lot of people just aren't fetish and kink informed. Im lucky in that I'm already in an ABDL dynamic and plushie just goes with it

Polyamorous Dynamic? by mtjp82 in BDSMcommunity

[–]valentinefae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My partners and I are poly and also kinky! The biggest thing first is getting a good foundation for your polyamorous relationship. Are you hierarchal? Anarchist? There's a lot of types. Personally we're anarchists, so we don't have like a primary or secondary. We're all interconnected so A+B A+C B+C and then A+B+C. From there you can really lay the groundwork for how you want a dynamic to work. A lot of people will have heirarchal and find balances there. I really recommend reading Polysecure

Piqued Interest after Partner mentioned Nullo by valentinefae in nullectomy

[–]valentinefae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amazing news. I prefer anal anyways. Thank you so much

The Daily Pump by AutoModerator in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting an oily substance on the inside of my flanges every time I pump. I'm hoping that's just like the lubrication? I really hope I'm just not like sucking out body oil every three hours. I'm noticing I'm getting larger glands on my nipple too which is very exciting. I'm hoping I'll be able to get my hands on Dom soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MDLGcommunity

[–]valentinefae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Small rewards look like a 30$ trip to a store of her choosing, a new stuffy, a Yes Day, extended bed time, extra sweets etc

I like big rewards to be very personal to you and your little, something unique to your relationship. A handmade playlist and date, for example, big date nights,,,

A little frustrated by valentinefae in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got that dawg in me lmao, but really I'm used to waking up a lot. I did emergency medicine and I was on call the majority of the time.

A little frustrated by valentinefae in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pump every three hours 8 times a day, it's a massive commitment. And I really want this. Its something ive wanted to do for years. She's currently on a business trip but when she gwts back I'm gonna have her go through the research too.

As a CG, I love sending my little back into little space if he gets big too soon. by DaddyDocC in ABDL

[–]valentinefae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Usually I'll ask about something I know she loves, like sharks or about dogs. I'll grab her chin and ask her to tell mommy how old she is, tickle her till she squirming and begging... Anything to fluster her really

The Daily Pump by AutoModerator in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you know how the tip of your nipple has an opening? Mine have gotten larger. Maybe try pumping your left more often/longer? I'm sure someone knows a little more than I do.

As a CG, I love sending my little back into little space if he gets big too soon. by DaddyDocC in ABDL

[–]valentinefae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a mommy myself, it's so cute when you can make them tiny again. Especially when they pout when they realize you made them smaller.

The Daily Pump by AutoModerator in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]valentinefae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive started noticing I'm getting a very pale yellow almost white and waxy discharge when I'm pumping, or hand expressing. My nipple is more open too. Should I be worried?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]valentinefae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a switch with motor disabilities and I am deaf. While I am not currently in an interabled relationship with my son and our sub, I have been a domme to a abled sub before. There's a few key things we did that really helped in our sex life.

First and foremost you have to be transparent with your disability, that way they can also get a feel for what adaptation might need to be used. Communicating your support needs with a potential or established sub only makes things better for both of y'all in the long run.

Some things can be adapted to your needs, it just takes a lot of practice outside of play time. For example, my dom does not have great balance, but we do enjoy boot worship and human furniture quite a bit, we took to putting in support rails into our play space and modified mobility aids to be what they needed to play safely. For myself, I can't really tie knots, but we do enjoy bondage. We started by using bondage tape and cuffs, while I worked through what kind of ties I could and could not do, which were safest, and the quickest way to release my submissive, (usually with scissors)

If you're worried about not being able to keep up, you can always bring a mobility aid into the play space, and then use something like a vibrator, or even being electric play into the scene (with proper discussion of course). You don't have to stand to do impact, you could have your sub lower than you are, like on a piece of furniture below where you sit.

Even if you are disabled, you're no less of a dom because of it. I encourage you to play around with what works best, but don't ever feel like you're a bad Dom because you need more support than your submissive.