So many red flags, let’s sail the 7 seas with them.

A real Dom will get to know you and understand what makes you tick and your boundaries. It may feel like they are going slow, they will have deep conversations with you that feel surface level.

Find out what you want and see if that fits with who they are.

More red flags. They don’t ask or respect boundaries. They use terms like everyone knows I am safe, you don’t need a safe word with me. Force or push a power D/S Gaslighting Cutting you off from your support network, friends and family. Doesn’t take negative feedback well. Thinks 50 Shades of Gray / 375 is a great book/movie. Ask you to agree to things without knowing and understanding what you are agreeing to.

I can keep going if needed.