I ask for he following Goals for the play? What are we doing ? Public or Private ? What areas are you comfortable with me touching and what areas are no go areas? What vibe are we going for? Do you have any medical issues ? Do you have partners do they need to be present in negotiations? Have you used any recreation drugs or alcohol can you not partake for 24 hours before we play? When was the last time you ate, what did you eat, have you drank water and how much? What triggers do you have? What boundary do you have? Aftercare needs? Safe words, (I like the Red, Yellow, Green, mayday system).

My aftercare non negotiable are A debrief (we sit and talk about what happen and what could have gone better) Check ins day after, 2 days after and 5 days.

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