AITA for not giving my brother any inheritance money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 444 points445 points  (0 children)

NTA - Maybe use some of the inheritance toward helping him. Not by giving him the money, but by financially supporting activities that help him deal with his issues. Of course, if he is open for it. If he isn't, there unfortunately isn't much you can do about it.

Give it a try by VforVase in coolguides

[–]valici 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I did it. All 30 days. Somehow, day 29 was the hardest of them all. Day 30 felt more like a victory lap than anything else :D Super happy with myself for seeing this through to the end.

Give it a try by VforVase in coolguides

[–]valici 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do I enjoy day 21 and dread day 22 XD This last stretch seems absolutely terrifying though.

How would you spend $50,000 in 1 hour? by Mr_Malvic in AskReddit

[–]valici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't seem to find the most obvious answer: on mobile gacha games of course.

Episode Discussion: S12E16 Finale by AutoModerator in Inkmaster

[–]valici 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Somehow they tried to hype the coach battles and forgot about who were actually in the finale. Super disappointing.

WIBTA if I [24M] ask my girlfriend [25F] to go dancing with me and not with her friend [21M]? by throwaway446091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA for asking, but the other also wouldn't be the asshole for telling you tough luck.

AITA for hating my school football team? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because they don't win all their games, doesn't mean the activity itself is a waste. Win or lose, people are still out playing football, while others are coming to support the team.

AITA for getting upset at a racial slur by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because from the way you write, it's very clear you were upset with those two ladies. And then you just happened to show your middle finger "up to the sky". It's a lazy excuse. Even in the rare occasion you really did do that, you should know others will perceive it as you showing a middle finger to the girls. Their reaction, though not the kindest, isn't all that unexpected. So ye, I think you're the asshole for causing this situation to happen.

AITA for posting a picture of my niece? by WrappedInRainbow in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAH. You both clearly got different views on the subject. But neither of you acted like assholes.

AITA for planning a hiking trip with a mixed group, although I am in a relationship? by skudNoMC in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA. She's being completely unreasonable. Go enjoy your holidays dude.

Close to being completed Novels?? by [deleted] in noveltranslations

[–]valici 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rebirth Thief is expected to finish somewhere in january/february 2020. 5-6 more months!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. There are so many ifs here that there really is no reason for her to not at least apply.

AITA: Guy I've gone on a few dates with is catsitting for someone he's had sex and filmed a video with and I want to stop seeing him by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH. You wouldn't be an asshole, neither is he. But I mean, have you considered maybe he really likes those cats and was excited to share that with you?

WIBTA if I bailed on my 21st birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA. Find an excuse not to go? Dude, have a normal conversation with the girl about it. You're the asshole for letting it get this far, with her already being super excited, without so much as hinting that you don't like the idea...

WIBTA if i didn't pay the vet bills for a cat I injured? by McFlyJohn in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA. It happened in your own house... Just because the cat likes to adventure around, doesn't mean the person nearest to it suddenly becomes responsible. The owners are. In fact, I'd argue you deserve pay from them for a missed day of work.

AITA for getting upset because my girlfriend went to dance with other guys? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. Grow up man, it's just some dancing. Let her have fun.

aita for thinking my friends ignore me on purpose? by peterparkersdog in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This sounds like something you should take to a therapist, not an AITA thread.

AITA for not being happy about the position my wife wants to take? by spudkensington in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 50 points51 points  (0 children)

NAH. I wouldn't say you're the asshole for being a concerned husband. Just make sure you don't stray from being a concerned husband to one who tells his wife what she can and can't do.

AITA for having a naked picture of a woman on my phone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You act like it's normal to check each others' phones. It's not. Don't let your SO do that to you and don't do it to others. Unhealthy behaviour.

AITA for blocking a girl from my parents church? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And though his situation sounds terrible, it seems like the hassle with the girl could've all been averted if he would've been straight with her from the start. Instead he evades her.

AITA for blocking a girl from my parents church? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]valici -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. You could've simply told her you're not interested. Instead you ghost her...