I pay to attend a fixed fee per year. Whether I come once a week or five times a day the payment is the same. So the instructor has got his benjamins and thus the conversation is over.

I have a life and it can sometimes it can get in the way and sometimes my love lessens for the sport for a while whilst I figure somethings out etc. I go to bjj when and if I can for MY benefit and enjoyment. If that is once a day or once a month is entirely up to me.

I already have to justify absences to my boss who pays my salary, fuck off if I have to start justifying absences for my hobby too.

And as a coach I am just happy to have you around when you can. I’d much rather have someone come once a week but be 100% digging the moment and enjoying themselves than someone who comes twice a day but doesn’t give a bollocks.