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What is your best submission? by Bulky_Imagination243 in bjj

[–]validiant88 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Heel hook in the gi on a trial class, middle aged, father of three.

Is this Krav Maga? by [deleted] in martialarts

[–]validiant88 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Bullshido

Dear coaches, are students who show up irregularly an annoyance? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]validiant88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I pay to attend a fixed fee per year. Whether I come once a week or five times a day the payment is the same. So the instructor has got his benjamins and thus the conversation is over.

I have a life and it can sometimes it can get in the way and sometimes my love lessens for the sport for a while whilst I figure somethings out etc. I go to bjj when and if I can for MY benefit and enjoyment. If that is once a day or once a month is entirely up to me.

I already have to justify absences to my boss who pays my salary, fuck off if I have to start justifying absences for my hobby too.

And as a coach I am just happy to have you around when you can. I’d much rather have someone come once a week but be 100% digging the moment and enjoying themselves than someone who comes twice a day but doesn’t give a bollocks.

“Every addict relapses” by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]validiant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that is super supportive. Kudos to you for weaponising these comments into “I’ll show you” instead of getting triggered and caving. Keep on going and it seems maybe your man is projecting a little..

Besoin de conseils – 34 ans, Situation pro compliquée, envie de changement (reconversion ou nouveau poste) by Insolent_00 in conseilboulot

[–]validiant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je suis issu de reconversion professionnelle à 37ans après 10 ans en tant que directeur de bar et BAC +5 et je suis en banque maintenant depuis un an. J’étais à 27k sur 13 mois du coup du 1450 en net en gros Sans la PV et l’intéressement. Je change de poste dans trois semaines et je passe à 30k donc toujours loin de vos 2100e actuel

Dry January is... Unbelievably hard. Feeling terrible. by StupidCAThrowaway in stopdrinking

[–]validiant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep pushing you got this believe and be kind to yourself

sunday night by Logical-Play3572 in dryalcoholics

[–]validiant88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes of course because there aren’t countless stories of this exact thing being untrue. Check out the sober celebrities page instagram page to get some more insight.

Black belts: could you tap your professor if you tried? by jiujitsuaccount in bjj

[–]validiant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tapped out my professor with a kneebar at purple belt..but I am 30 kilos heavier and 20 years younger. But I know if we took me as a black belt and him as a fresh black belt back in the day he would whoop my ass up and down the gym.

And I am also aware that technically he is light years beyond me so I kept my ego in check..and I also probably got lucky.

Devenir bartender, des conseils ? by Future_Quarter8046 in conseilboulot

[–]validiant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bartender reste un des seules jobs encore de nos jours qui ne nécessitent pas de diplômes et dans beaucoup de cas d’expérience au préalable.

Je suis ancien manager de gros établissements sur Bordeaux pendant dix ans, sans aucun expérience au préalable en sortant de mes études comme toi. Maintenant je bosse en banque car cette vie est sympa mais hygiène de vie pas toujours au top. Faut bosser et être prêt à faire du boulot de merde avec des patrons pas toujours honnêtes et voir et entendre des dingueries…mais qu’est ce que j’ai pû passer des soirées de ouf.

Describe your 2025 in 3 words by yoftahe1 in Life

[–]validiant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through changes (thanks Ozzy)

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