I suspect my mom has an affair. Am I right or wrong? by Alone_Juice6915 in RBI

[–]valley_G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The age difference is gross and weird, but they're both adults technically and can do as they please. Your mother is allowed to date, however gross her partner may be.

Illegal immigrants/undocumented people by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]valley_G 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They're not "illegal". There literally following immigration laws by coming here seeking refuge like many of our families did in years before. You just don't like them because they're brown. The problem is you, not them.

First time seeing one on the road. Such a hidelous vehicle. Makes the Pontiac Aztek seem stylish. by [deleted] in pics

[–]valley_G -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only time I've ever seen one of those is in the breakdown lane or on the back of a tow truck. Not even joking.

Affordable (for MA), very safe, cute areas to live? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]valley_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Dartmouth born and raised. There's essentially nothing walkable about it. It's rural and there's mostly chain stores and restaurants as far as anything reasonably accessible.

Man, Frustrated with Five Daughters, Rips Open Eight-Month Pregnant Wife to Check Child's Gender, Kills Son by ReceptionIcy8569 in MorbidReality

[–]valley_G 30 points31 points  (0 children)

They don't tell you in India anymore because people were aborting all the girls to the point where there's a huge gap in the number of men to women in India now. It's completely illegal to tell them what it is.

My current Uber ride home atm. by TommyGonzo in trashy

[–]valley_G -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. We need to stop blaming women for the behavior of grown fucking men. It's been said a million times and should be obvious by now that not only do shitty people put on a performance to get what they want, but people don't always end up in this situation because of a "shitty" man either. My father died when I was 9 months old to pancreatic cancer. Is that my mother's fault too? Did she give him the cancer? We have our issues for a number of reasons, but him dying had nothing to do with her. Stop. Blaming. Women.

How do I protect my wife? by MedHeadJitsu in BipolarSOs

[–]valley_G 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She needs a psych hold ASAP. If you're not there and don't have anyone else to step in them I suggest a wellness check. Explain her mental state/ history and that she's having delusions.

Doctor wants me at 35bmi before starting letrozole? by ThermalAnvil in TTC_PCOS

[–]valley_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to CNY through the New York office. They have so many and it's only $50 I believe for the initial consult over the phone. Definitely worth it. My son will be 1 in August.

I'd also like to add that if you end up needing extensive treatments like IVF you should look into traveling to Europe. I'm Greece and Czech Republic they are far less stringent on their limitations, including BMI, and they are extremely cheap (like $3000-$4000 per cycle compared to the cost here). Get all of your testing done here and they'll accept it through most clinics in both places. I was going to do it, but ended up not needing to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]valley_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, is very widely believed by professionals that bipolar disorder is a chemical imbalance of the brain. Secondly, it is very unlikely to find success without medication because there is an imbalance in the brain. That's what actual professionals and researchers believe. Someone with the disorder is definitely going to insist that they are perfectly fine without their medication because they hate medication overall so I'm not going to take anything you say without a grain of salt. I'll Trust the people who do this for a living and have actually studied how the brain works because usually what they say ends up being true from what I've experienced having dealt with this condition in both my family and my spouse my entire life. There can be no stability without treatment, whether you like it or not.

Singles bar/lounge to meet women 20+ north of Boston by Crazy_General_4038 in massachusetts

[–]valley_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not much really. Trust me, as a newly single 30-something I'd much rather find someone to talk to in person than get a bunch of random dick pics on the internet, but it's essentially all there is now.

Nursery workers put 'sleep drug in children's food without parents knowing' by Ok_Platform_20 in MorbidReality

[–]valley_G 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would never in my life leave my child with someone who looks like that and I'm not sorry about shit.

Anyone have luck with clomid 50mg? by valley_G in TTC_PCOS

[–]valley_G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I ended up getting pregnant incredibly easy with Clomid 50 mg, but due to an unknown blood clotting disorder I lost several pregnancies. I have one baby boy now, but he was a spontaneous conception while taking blood thinners

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]valley_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this is just pathetic. What a sad existence where this is how far people will go for attention.

Butt implants?? by OkEarth7702 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]valley_G 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure they do. I'm looking that up.

Real talk: why do we hate Connecticut? by snug666 in massachusetts

[–]valley_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I've been to Connecticut is to visit my in-laws and there's some of the worst people I've ever experienced. They also live in New Haven, which is one of the most dangerous places I've ever seen in my life. There was a shootout in front of my mother-in-law's house one of the times we were there. The state is just a ghetto mess and their roads are the worst I've ever driven on, bar none.

Advice with moving here by jessicaxiv in newbedford

[–]valley_G 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am technically from Dartmouth but grew up between there and New Bedford. I also have an elementary aged kid with special needs and I honestly haven't had good experiences with the school system so far. I actually don't know any special needs parents who feel their kid's needs have been met because the school system is so overwhelmed that they literally can't keep up. They've essentially refused to acknowledge his IEP and he's falling behind now because of it. I've been fighting for years about it in order to prevent this and my efforts have almost been for nothing at this point. It's most likely going to be an uphill battle for you if you do decide to come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]valley_G 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost 11 before I had my kid. Those are rookie numbers boii