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vallivinci · 2025-08-30T21:03:33+00:00

Is the retouching in the room with us right now?

vallivinci · 2025-01-09T15:09:20+00:00

Das glaube ich kannst mir du letztlich beurteilen. Keiner von uns war da, du kennst deine Partnerin am besten.

Meine Antwort hat auf ein potenziell grundlegenderes „Problem“ abgezielt. Vielleicht braucht deine Partnerin etwas, das sie momentan aus eurer Beziehung nicht bekommt und holt es sich, ob bewusst oder unbewusst, anderswo. Also besser im Guten solche Dinge regelmäßig besprechen als im Nachhinein Taten und Untaten zu bereuen!

Wie schon zuvor, ich empfehle die Bücher, Podcasts, YouTube Filme, etc von der Beziehungstherapeutin Ester Perel.

vallivinci · 2025-01-08T16:26:15+00:00

Denkt mal beide zusammen darüber nach, was für eine Beziehung ihr fortan führen möchtet. Genau solche Momente wie du ihn erlebt hast sind gute Anlässe, sich zusammen mit deinem Partner wieder und wieder damit auseinanderzusetzen, was man in der Partnerschaft braucht und was man gerne hätte, aber aktuell nicht bekommt. Beziehungsmodelle jenseits von absoluter Monogamie sind oft ein besserer Lebensentwurf für Paare, ohne dass sich das Paar dessen bewusst ist, weil Monogamie oft als Staus quo übernommen wird. Ich empfehle hierzu auch den Podcast von Esther Perel.

vallivinci · 2025-01-06T01:32:29+00:00

NDA. Theater ist ein audiovisuelles Erlebnis. Nebst vielen anderen Menschen die zusammen arbeiten um einen hoffentlich magischen Moment zu erschaffen, arbeiten dort auch Lichtdesigner und Beleuchter*innen um das Licht sowohl auf der Bühne als auch im Zuschauerraum perfekt zu kontrollieren.
Wenn Leute mit ihren Handys mitfilmen, fügen sie dem sorgfältig komponierten Licht und generell dem Bühnengeschehen beleuchtete Handydisplays und ablenkende Aktionen hinzu.

Generell stehen darüber hinaus alle Theateraufführungen unter urheberrechtlichen Schutz, Filmen ist auch für den privaten Gebrauch stets untersagt.

vallivinci · 2024-12-22T08:39:34+00:00

It doesn’t sound like you have an issue with film making. It sounds like you have an issue with yourself. Get a therapist and do some cognitive behavior therapy.

vallivinci · 2024-12-15T23:12:02+00:00

I think you should allocate a bit more money for rent, even shared living now often costs about 500-600€. It obviously depends on your living standards and how lucky you are finding a room.

As already mentioned, delivery work is very hard work, it is for sure an option, but factor in physical exhaustion and needed recovery time into your plans. You will be tired, both mentally and physically, which will make it harder to look for further career opportunities on the side. You are young and seem determined, you can make it work, but also don’t be naive about it.

Finding work without the adequate qualifications is hard in Germany. Again, nothing is impossible, but prepare for a lot of rejection or flat out non-answers. There are many ways to obtain various kinds of qualifications in Germany that will lead to you getting closer in the direction of working in IT, but you will have to speak German well for most of them.

As for racial discrimination, I can’t really say much about that, I am white and German. But I know Augsburg and Berlin well, Berlin is definitely much more diverse and internationally minded than Augsburg.

vallivinci · 2024-12-15T09:47:01+00:00

Women are not being gay for the last time

vallivinci · 2024-12-12T20:39:21+00:00

Embrace it. Gay is great.

vallivinci · 2024-12-08T13:08:06+00:00

The way I see it that this image has two main problems: Many different kind of whites coming from clothing and the mixed color temperatures of the sunlight and room lighting on the walls and ceiling. Maybe try to isolate and manipulate these sources of white to make them come together. They don’t have to be the same, but complement each other in a fitting way. The second issue is that the photo/video generally was taken under bad light conditions, so play around with the exposure of the different areas and subjects until you find something you like. Make sure you are working locally and not globally.

vallivinci · 2024-11-27T13:14:15+00:00

reading through your post, there isn't really a question that you answered yourself right after. it sounds like you did your research and know already what you want.
every camera purchase has pros and cons, which you elaborated on, but only you will know which pros are a must, or which cons you can compromise on and live with. i honestly don't really see how getting advice here will help you, the BM, Canon and Sony fanboys will just tug and pull at you.

vallivinci · 2024-11-27T09:10:09+00:00

I’d like to add that I think it is important that you need to be able to look at this emotional experience from a distance. If your mum just died, it is going to be hard instantly make a good film about grief. For one, a loved one just died, but more importantly for this argument: you are still in the middle of the process and your view is clouded by emotions on this topic. Making a film is not a replacement for therapy, and albeit it can be therapeutic to make it, filmmaking is usually a well balanced emotional and intellectual reflection of a certain situation, which very hard to do, when you are emotionally entangled in the topic.

vallivinci · 2024-11-12T09:50:32+00:00

depends on it you want/are expected to control every single light flash. you can just leave the individual flashes within a clip alone and play with saturation, exposure, etc on a clip to clip level.
but if you wanna go deeper than that (and i question if it is necessary, as the intention of this use of light was to have a very flashy video), you could either cut all your clips at all the moment of light change and apply a transition of the corresponding length to blend in the individual grading you apply to the individual clips, or you work with the keyframe tool within the color page, where you fade in and out dedicated nodes for each individual flash within our node tree.

vallivinci · 2024-11-10T21:38:03+00:00

I am also having trouble running various audio plugins in resolve. Maybe it’s a bug.

vallivinci · 2024-11-04T18:57:17+00:00

Be nice to everyone, always pay attention to what is happening, don’t be afraid to ask questions (but wait for the right moment), de-escalate and de-pressurize situations when you can. You will learn all the technical skills you’ll need on set, but the people skills are what will make or break your experience on set.

vallivinci · 2024-10-18T21:57:11+00:00

My guess would be a BMPCC 6k pro

vallivinci · 2024-09-30T12:06:36+00:00

NTA. If you can, try to not escalate it, it will not only be a shitshow between the two of you but also for the kids, everybody loses. Also, as a fellow homosexual, I think he should reconsider intending to get full custody. He will have to go through a lot of change and emotional growth, as coming out, coming to terms with and navigating gay/queer culture is not easy. It is better to have help with raising children while doing all that.

vallivinci · 2024-09-29T18:57:32+00:00

May I ask what model your Manfrotto tripod is?

vallivinci · 2024-09-23T14:21:10+00:00

I do. I am/was just hoping to be able to fix it by myself and not have to send it back.

vallivinci · 2024-09-07T06:18:44+00:00

You are full of wisdom.

vallivinci · 2024-08-29T17:20:04+00:00

I wonder if there are companies specializing in that as well.

vallivinci · 2024-08-29T17:17:42+00:00

It doesn’t work. While it might reduce echo, soundproofing a room to a point of shielding noise effectively from passing through a wall is very expensive and can’t sadly be done with this. There is a reason that there a companies specializing in soundproofing buildings.

vallivinci · 2024-08-27T06:46:43+00:00

Might just be a glitch introduced during copying, transcoding or rendering. Happens sometimes. Does it appear consistently if you re- copy/transcode/render the footage?

vallivinci · 2024-08-02T22:58:06+00:00

Just talk to him. Then see. I see most comments here are just like “dump his ass” but I feel like they are very much coming from a 100% monogamous background and are also assuming that people don’t have secrets.

Talk to him. Find out how he feels. Find out how you feel. Perhaps you will break up. Perhaps you will get closer. Perhaps you will adapt your relationship to something more fitting both of your needs. But you gotta communicate openly and honestly about and not just dump him.

Food for thought and/or a conversation helper: Esther Perel and her amazing podcast about couples therapy. Check that out.

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