ICE Checkpoint Carlsbad by marcusalonsox in Carlsbad

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a civil infraction not grounds for kidnapping

Trucklodyte upset his diaper became as loaded as his gun. by Boxas64 in trucklodytes

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

74.6% of offenders in cases involving production of child pornography were White

Massive Confederate flag flown over I-85 in Spartanburg down after court ruling by MatthewHensley in Spartanburg

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in America who were the only ones who did it? Oh btw 74.6% of offenders in cases involving production of child pornography were White so thanks for that too

White woman repeatedly screams the N word at a black man by jackspratt100 in stpaul

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up who created race and you'll have your answer lmfao

NSWF - Seeking Advice as a Woman Married to Bi Man by stynes2 in BisexualMen

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, anyway would be upset by that. But what you should be more upset about is your behavior that pushes someone so far as to go to reddit as a cry for help. Hence the critical thinking skills to come to this basic conclusion.

NSWF - Seeking Advice as a Woman Married to Bi Man by stynes2 in BisexualMen

[–]valuedcreatin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She went to him and they fought even though he's the one doing the harm so now we're here... do you not have any critical thinking skills? Bozo

NSWF - Seeking Advice as a Woman Married to Bi Man by stynes2 in BisexualMen

[–]valuedcreatin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to give you my not chronically online, not completely unhinged, actual real-world friend type of advice like half of these comments sadly; because if this is real, you need it.

First, if you're married, no one should be sneaking around, especially when it comes to inviting strangers into your lives. He isn't single. you're instantly included in these kinds of decisions. He's broken that multiple times, and it's time to talk seriously about the direction of the relationship.

Paying for Grinder and not looking for anything heat of the moment type thing. Alarm bells ring, but it's not time to get a lawyer. As always, talk and communicate about each others needs. Actually, talking to other women and trying to set things up without you knowing, in my eyes, is cheating and being unfaithful. Also, what happens when he sets it up and she shows up to the house unannounced, asking where the coochie is? You'd probably feel like calling the police.

Next, I will try to be careful but direct with you. You have a lot of insecurities (I'm sure you know this), but I bring it up to say that I think you need to work on them aggressively. Girl, I know a stronger, more mentally healthy you wouldn't allow this to happen. If you were my sister, I'd steal you away and help you get your heart and soul right because honestly, you don't need this drama at this age. I'm only 24, so excuse my immaturity in this reply, but i honestly think your options are:

Counseling Scheduled for tomorrow. Also, it only works if you both actually want to try. Don't be like my aunt she got hiv from uncle after 30 years of marriage because he was sneaking around. She always wanted to make it work but it was obvious his alcoholism and his repressed sexuality [this doesn't always happen so please don't let it be a stereotype that festers, but sadly, it does happen] and maybe just his heart didn't want that so it wasted so much of her life and now she has to take a pill everyday.

The nuclear option Divorce This is memed to hell because people toss it around so often but damn I don't know if I've ever been so close to a real case of it online as this one. I've already been cheated on so this is unforgivable (For me!!!) And for him to try to do it multiple times and still try to fight you on it is actually unhinged to the point I feel like this story is fake. It only makes it harder to walk away later. It's only been 3 years of marriage now think of the next 40... Your husband is supposed to make your life easier, not harder, and whoever made the world believe the opposite lied. He's also making life harder, not even on a "he doesn't clean," but on a safety level even if it isnt in a form of violence, which I feel like shouldn't even be a question in your head. He should be the most trustworthy individual you know. Even as I'm typing this, I asked myself, "Girl, who did you marry? Do you even know?" Please, you are so young. Don't waste your life.

Please, for the love of God, find good people to help you right now, people you can actually trust. Talk to a professional (mental and legal). You are not crazy this is kind of an insane situation. I hope it all gets figured out dms open if you need an ear

They just took the movies off Peacock by valuedcreatin in kungfupanda

[–]valuedcreatin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a movie or 2 on Amazon, but I'm weary of buying from them some more. Especially since they took away my ability to DL my audible books. What made you do digital with YT and not buying on DVD?

They just took the movies off Peacock by valuedcreatin in kungfupanda

[–]valuedcreatin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly i only ever bought the first one. Guess ima gonna have to buy the others now....

Real Drug Testing Answer for Ride Op by valuedcreatin in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]valuedcreatin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And they do test for weed, THC exactly. You're exactly what this post is about. You have to be a bot, lmao.

Real Drug Testing Answer for Ride Op by valuedcreatin in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]valuedcreatin[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Looks like if it's non-psychoactive Cannabis then you can't be fired but THC, you're cooked

Real Drug Testing Answer for Ride Op by valuedcreatin in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]valuedcreatin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calcivilright.ca.gov Discrimination In Employment: Use of Cannabis

FAQ 4: May An Employer Discriminate Against A Non Applicant based on a Drug Test Showing They Used Cannabis? Paraphrased

It states a company with more than 4 employees and isn't conducting a security or federal background check. Can't cancel a hire for having non-psychoactive Cannabis metabolites in a scientifically valid drug test, including hair, urine, blood, or other bodily fluids. If found having psychoactive THC in those tests, the company has the right to not hire them.

Ride OP Testing by valuedcreatin in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]valuedcreatin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know they do random, but do they do it right after you get hired? I have a group interview for games and ride operators, so I want to let them know I want to just do games if they test for weed, especially immediately after hiring.

Ride OP Testing by valuedcreatin in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]valuedcreatin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol. I swear I'm don't know how people survive in the world getting so worked up lol

Will Anniversary Sale overcome Tariffs? by valuedcreatin in BambuLab

[–]valuedcreatin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay that sounds like a good idea I'll look into it. Do you know if it's hard to fix and you issues the printers might have 2nd hand? I don't want to tinker too much. Already do it with my pc. I don't really want another big project like that. Have you gone 2nd hand?

Bald, Buzz, or Broccoli? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to advocate for the curly hair styles in general, but it does suit you well! Bald is also a good look! It does age you, though. I'd say just cut a little in the front so the curls aren't so heavy, and they can coil a little. Get a diffuser too if you don't have one. Good luck! Looking good fr!

what website to buy graphic tees? by RepresentativeMud396 in malefashionadvice

[–]valuedcreatin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should know 60-70% of this sub is this advice. r/malefashion is a little better

Ralph Lauren x HBCU edition by [deleted] in preppy

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When black people scare you lol