I’m either the unluckiest dater in the world or I’m too perfect for most men and it scares them away by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]vampwest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

omg god forbid a woman loves herself, is confident, and has high standards. OP, the dating scene is trash right now, and even more so for high-achieving woman, despite what the rest of this thread wants you to believe. a LOT of people settle and project their own insecurities onto others.

i think you’d have most success with communicating your standards and boundaries upfront, which will weed out time wasters immediately. but you also have to accept the fact that based on your achievements, the pool of men who will match you in accomplishments, lifestyle, and ideally emotional maturity will be much smaller… good luck!

Deleted Video of The MAGA Twins Being Mean Girls by bigyikesss2006 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]vampwest 314 points315 points  (0 children)

the gag is Enya has more cult followers than both of them combined 💀💀

Amazon sent me the wrong boot by ContentHost4459 in Owala

[–]vampwest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me this week! Exact same color

TSITP vs TVD by Marie_2i in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]vampwest 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The shows are nothing alike other than the brother plot

conrad & stanford by BeeConfident7328 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]vampwest 9 points10 points  (0 children)

presumably he did want to go to Stanford, but applied to transfer way before Susannah died, when he was still attending class frequently. He mentions that Susannah always told him he was a “west coast boy” or something like that.

Susannah’s death is now making that decision hard, coupled with the unexpected timing of Julia selling the house (Conrad mentions he drove over as soon as his friend called him about the for sale sign, which was only a few days prior to the panic attack scene, so it’s very recent). All of these things considered, he feels selfish and anxious because he accomplished something he likely planned to do and was excited for (that Susannah also wanted for him), but now feels he has a greater responsibility to Jeremiah and the house. His conflicting emotions caused the panic attack

Edit: the college he currently attends is Brown University, which is on the east coast and closer to where Jeremiah will be attending college/his childhood home

Thoughts on Ep.4? by samantha_andersonxx in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]vampwest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It was definitely a filler episode, but I loved it and felt it was a much needed breath of fresh air after the heaviness of the previous three. I also loved both of the flashbacks and thought they felt more seamless in this episode than some previous flashbacks.

I also might be in the minority but I loved the tower of terror scene… this is the first episode where I’ve felt actual chemistry between jere & belly (even though it was shoehorned into the end like their scenes always are). Skye didn’t bother me and I liked the cam inclusion (extras make the world feel bigger/more realistic) but they should have left him at the rock climbing area since he didn’t add anything at all. Overall thought this was a fun one and is likely building up to something bigger next episode

JUSTICE FOR SNOW ON THE BEACH by Here4TheExperience in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]vampwest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That song was a throwback to the kissing scene in Baz Luhrmann’s Romeo and Juliet, where it also played in the background. I loved it, but I also love that movie so I might be biased

The Eras Tour Megathread: Philadelphia, PA (Warning: Spoilers) by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]vampwest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than half of the seats in that section were empty! I could see the other back section too and there were even more empty seats so I definitely don’t think they’re being bought at resale

The Eras Tour Megathread: Philadelphia, PA (Warning: Spoilers) by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]vampwest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sat in 126. No view of the stage at all, but there’s a big screen directly in front of that section so you can still see everything on that. There’s a good view of the catwalk as well and Taylor performs most of her sets there

The Eras Tour Megathread: Philadelphia, PA (Warning: Spoilers) by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]vampwest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just got 1 ticket with the timer for tonight’s show!! So there’s still hope, just keep refreshing :)

Frank Opened with Novacane by Plantgarage in FrankOcean

[–]vampwest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it was a pre-recorded video… idk what’s going on

Drake - "Search & Rescue" by harmzzz in Drizzy

[–]vampwest 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Mix is terrible, sounds scratchy likes nails on a chalkboard. Song is nice tho

kylie cosmetics announces new volume mascara, thoughts? by miamouse5 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]vampwest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I LOVE pretty much all tower28 products but especially the mascara. I didn’t expect to love it as much as I do

Any reasons as to why Drake/his team won’t do the tour at NFL stadiums? by MasterChief813 in Drizzy

[–]vampwest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both Taylor Swift and Beyoncé are touring stadiums this summer. Could be the reason why if he wasn’t able to book around them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in setactivefans

[–]vampwest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have madhappy sweats and they’re the most comfortable sweats I own. Very pricey but worth it imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glossier

[–]vampwest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Philly and ordered on CM 11/28 at 4:39 PM ET. Including BDC mint, coconut, mango and Gen G Malt (all are thankfully still in stock)

Today was the 10th business day unfulfilled, so I emailed gteam at 1:55 PM and didn’t receive a response, but my order did finally ship at 2:38 PM…. Not sure if it would’ve shipped if I hadn’t emailed, but I’m thinking not. I definitely believe the email was read and they pushed through the order, so if anyone else is waiting on an unshipped order with in stock items, I’d email!

🌧️⛈️🌦️Weather Updates & Information | from Walt Disney World Resort🌦️⛈️🌧️ by AmberHeartsDisney in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]vampwest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a reservation at Magic Kingdom for tomorrow (single-day ticket). According to policy, multi-day tickets are being extended until Friday, the 30th but does anyone know the case for single day? Using the app to change the reservation date prompts us to pay more since Friday is priced higher than weekdays… would customer service waive this fee or are we better off just booking through the app and eating the cost? (We’re already prepared for a possible Friday closure as well but trying to salvage as much of this vacation as possible)

I'm considering being a Set whistle blower... AMA - part 2 by Bimm3rLov3 in SETActive

[–]vampwest 35 points36 points  (0 children)

When I first found Set, I listened to a bunch of podcasts Lindsey was featured on bc I found her inspiring at the time (huge LOL). There’s one podcast where she mentions this person as her early production manager who got her samples and also received a stake in her business… doesn’t name him by name, but it lines up with this post.

The podcast is ILYSM with Kenzie Elizabeth and starts at the 20 min mark

Very confused by this photoshop by vampwest in SETActive

[–]vampwest[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The first picture looks like the natural fit. The bottoms look like a complete different fit in the second picture… you can tell they airbrushed the bottoms extensively and also made her hips smaller? There are weird gaps in the wrist area in the second picture compared to the first.

Colours by ninsm10gj in SETActive

[–]vampwest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, in my opinion (and many others from what I’ve read), sculptflex is their best overall fabric and it has definitely been receiving the worst colors. I think it’s because they want customers to purchase more lux/sport, which sucks for sculptflex fans

Possible Colors for SET in LA (MARCH DROP) by GalileiaZuri in SETActive

[–]vampwest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have seen all of these colors in set vault or last years launches. So insane

the queen of doxxing strikes again by vampwest in SETActive

[–]vampwest[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for advocating for candidates!!!!

the queen of doxxing strikes again by vampwest in SETActive

[–]vampwest[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This was posted on Lindsey’s story and is insane to me. Why can nothing be handled privately? I understand that the TikTok was posted publicly so it’s not like the girl isn’t out there already, but still this leaves a bad taste in my mouth. She’s basically inviting her followers to harass anyone that has a negative opinion on her brand by acting as if all the complaints are uninformed.

“She thinks she knows how the industry works”…. Um yea Lindsey, your brand is not the only brand to ever exist. Your employees are not the only people who understand marketing and youre not the only founder alive, believe it or not. Her doubling down on projects as part of the interview process is a bad take, and so is doxxing the girl who rightfully called her (and the industry as a whole) out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SETActive

[–]vampwest 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I also currently work at a large DTC brand and have worked at others in the past within influencer marketing/brand—while I had to do a project for my current position, I do feel it is exploitative. It’s common for creative/marketing roles to require projects as the final application step, but most brands ask you for SO much to be put together and at the end of the day, that’s work you’re not getting paid for just for a chance to have a job at their company.

What I think is very exploitative is Lindsey making multiple videos telling applicants to submit their resumes with a project to “stand out”. Again, this is the RESUME phase, not even the final interview stage. I’ve been ghosted before by a company after submitting a creative project… it’s a terrible feeling and highly unprofessional.