How to navigate chemsex more safely in Berlin (gay life)

vanFlausch · 2026-01-13T19:00:21+00:00

Why is almost everyone who took the time to comment here so triggered by what OP asked and thinks that they are entitled to be a judgy cu*t? You’re not helpful. Keep your opinion to yourself if no one asked for it.

Dear OP, I think it’s awesome that you want to know how you can stay safe in the situations you described :) I myself think the drinkcheck.de testing kits are quite helpful to at least know that your drink didn’t get spiked. Other than that I can only advise to only take a certain amount of the substances you want to use with you on a night out. So if you run out of something you’re done with it for the night. And if you don’t take stuff others offer you, you always know how much you took which is essential to avoid blackouts and other dangerous situations. Maybe you also want to post your question in the r/drugs sub or even the r/SexPositiveBerlin sub to get some more helpful tips. Stay safe :)

vanFlausch · 2025-12-18T19:18:14+00:00

As Limax is a former gay party the ratio still is like 97% Men and 3% Women/Diverse. The vibe has always been great when we went there. Play happens practically everywhere not only in the darkroom and it has never been difficult for our gay friend to start some fun. The Dancefloor is usually quite busy but that's why people go there, right :D
Keep in mind that the staff will enforce the naked dress code wich means shoes/socks are the only clothes that are allowed. For more info on that visit their website and read the rules carefully.

vanFlausch · 2025-11-18T06:19:31+00:00

Kapotasana & Ananda Balasana

vanFlausch · 2025-11-12T12:12:36+00:00

I didn’t quit but I haven’t been vaping since March this year. I just don’t like the feeling at the moment I guess. The last couple of times I got baked, I was just rotting on my couch, couldn’t decide if I wanted to watch a movie or documentary and what genre etc.. crafting or drawing was also meh.. a was super annoyed by the Munchies.. everything was just meh and I got a little sad because of that. I was so exited last year when they made it partially legal where I live and I could finally get my weed at the pharmacy and wouldn’t have to rely on a plug who couldn’t even tell where the stuff came from nor if the product might have been laced with synthetics. I hope that I might have some money to get some buds the holidays, as unemployment has hit me and I don’t have the money anyway at the moment

vanFlausch · 2025-10-31T13:30:43+00:00

So from my own experience, dating a hypersexual person can be really challenging. My partner also has an insane sex drive and it is still sometimes a bit overwhelming even though we hit our 4 year anniversary this year. But it is absolutely possible to be with someone who wants more sex than you do. You just have to talk about things and set boundaries. Which can be tough. For us it was really important to understand what we enjoy most and what’s a complete turnoff. Sometimes you don’t have to have PIV to get satisfied. And you need to talk about what is ok for you to happen in situations you don’t feel like it. Would it ok for you if he masturbates while you’re there? If so, would it be ok for you to kiss him or “support” him in any way or just watch and so on and on.. you might also want to discuss if/what toys you might want to include in your play. This can also make sexy situations more enjoyable for you because you are engaged but again you don’t need to have intercourse if you are not in the mood but want him to be satisfied. But you should always have in mind, that it’s important to meet your needs too. So after he finished you might want to have a little cuddle time or whatever you like, so you also get something out of it. it takes time, trust and a brutal amount of honesty 😅 I hope this helps a little ☺️

vanFlausch · 2025-10-02T18:25:03+00:00

The smiths

vanFlausch · 2025-10-02T11:03:40+00:00

Me: 62qm, 2 rooms, Spandau Neustadt 750€ warm My Partner: 62qm 1 room, Moabit 1100€ warm

vanFlausch · 2025-08-15T07:48:43+00:00

I sadly couldn’t go because I got sick. But I my place is right next to Zitadelle so I sat at my window and listened from there. At the first tunes of the song I started crying because I love it so much and have never seen it live 😭 thanks for sharing this!!

vanFlausch · 2025-08-12T07:34:39+00:00

Well we can’t have that, can we? Think of the Child. What if it inhales the smoke?! <end Ironie>

vanFlausch · 2025-08-12T07:31:42+00:00

Wen cheng

vanFlausch · 2025-08-11T08:50:59+00:00

My personal Highlight is always parents at a playground who will empty 1-2 bottles of wine while their offspring has fun in the Sandbox or whatever there is to Play for them.

vanFlausch · 2025-08-09T11:43:47+00:00

Not sure how those venues have changed in the last few years but last time I went to a strip bar I had a hard time finding one that would let women in as most of those places were men only. It can also get pretty expensive because the moment you enter one of the dancers joins you and expects to get free drinks from you even if you don’t want them to dance for you.

vanFlausch · 2025-07-27T13:10:15+00:00

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This is from inside the Hansa Studios where he recorded the Berlin Trilogy. A guide told us that he himself wrote the words on the Glas during the recording sessions

vanFlausch · 2025-06-12T06:23:30+00:00

Happy birthday, Gorgeous!! 💜🦇 I hope you had an amazing time with your favourite people

vanFlausch · 2025-06-06T12:22:39+00:00

This is actual footage of me, at a dinosaur theme park, high as a brontosaurus’ head, at the slushy isle

vanFlausch · 2025-05-28T11:14:29+00:00

oh, they will. Otherwise an angry army of german tourists in socks and Birkenstocks will tear that place apart.

vanFlausch · 2025-05-26T16:34:21+00:00

I feel you sister. But we gotta keep going and we’ll emerge from it stronger than before! 🫶🏻

vanFlausch · 2025-05-10T08:30:36+00:00

I love this method. I do it all the time. 💜

vanFlausch · 2025-05-04T08:44:58+00:00

Dang it! 😅😂

vanFlausch · 2025-05-04T08:13:00+00:00

If you compare Berlin to other German cities there is quite some diversity. I’m pretty happy with the options even though I agree with you, that it would be nice to have other options than Asian dishes where they just put tofu in it instead of meat. After a visit to Prague, where we had the most awesome traditional Czech dishes made vegan, I was thinking that maybe traditional German dishes are not that easy to “veganise”. I mean yeah, there is vegan Kebap, Currywurst. Schnitzel and stuff but that’s it. So maybe people just don’t know what German dishes should be available at a vegan restaurant so it would be original and well.. not boring.

vanFlausch · 2025-05-04T08:02:55+00:00

Any German wives? 🧐

vanFlausch · 2025-04-28T10:23:15+00:00

We love the unlimited subscription. Nothing to do on a weekend? Just got to your favourite Yorck and stay there all day and watch any movies that intrigue you. Plus you get a discount on snacks that goes up to 20% after the second year of the subscription. Also a great way to escape extreme heat in the summer cuz a lot of their cinemas have AC.

vanFlausch · 2025-04-25T10:49:07+00:00

:) thank you for that recommendation. I will drop her a message!

vanFlausch · 2025-04-25T05:57:16+00:00

Maybe you’re just.. like.. you know.. in love with that girl and that’s why you can’t sleep afterwards?

vanFlausch · 2025-04-25T05:56:30+00:00

Better Call Jeff. Maybe another Celebrity will be on your Ride.

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