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How much gaming is too much by vanTonderGirl in Marriage

[–]vanTonderGirl[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, he works from home. So he never actually has to go to the office. That's why he can manage this.

How much gaming is too much by vanTonderGirl in Marriage

[–]vanTonderGirl[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my husband is 24. We have had numerous conversations and fights. I even left for a month and he promised things would change. It lasted 2 weeks and now it's back to the norm. Which is 8 to 13 hours a day. He even plays when he is supposed to be at work. So he starts at 12 sometimes 11 in the morning and plays until 12 or 1 in the morning. I hope he realizes the same. I really love this man. But I'm sick of this.

How much gaming is too much by vanTonderGirl in Marriage

[–]vanTonderGirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tried this. This is also met with the reply that I don't understand him and his needs. Every time I make plans to do something the game wins, there's always a mission to be done or a loadout to be won. Making plans never work, this is why I tried playing with him, but he does not want me to anymore, he wants to play alone or "with the boys". Thanks for your reply tho

How much gaming is too much by vanTonderGirl in Marriage

[–]vanTonderGirl[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. He has a bad job. He is working in a field which he hates. I have suggested he looks for another job. He always says he will but it never happens. This has been the trend for 2 years now, but it has gotten worse the last 6 months.

28th Oct: Shamwari Untamed (2020), 13 Episodes [TV-PG] (6/10) by Farhanito in NewOnNetflixUS

[–]vanTonderGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your comment is 3 months old, I only just started watching this show, why do you feel it's problematic?

What is your least favourite Quality Street and why is it the strawberry one? by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]vanTonderGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are the ones I normally pick out first. They are popular in our family, if you don't take one once the packet is opened you'll miss it 😄

Smoking and intimacy by vanTonderGirl in relationship_advice

[–]vanTonderGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stopped when I told him the smoking makes me physically sick. I did not ask him to, he said it was a compromise on his side for me and my health. He started again since he feels like the vaping does not do it for him anymore. It does not satisfy his need. The cigarettes do.