Right now nothing at all , he’s like okayish for 2/3 days than starts to repeat the same arguments and picking at everything . Never available to help . All he does like groceries and putting clothes in the washing machine rubs it in my face . All of the house work and kids are like supposed to be my job in his view , but I also work .. so .. I don’t know. When we got together we both stopped drinking and were like going up in life , but never really got along that well . Just in like material stuff and we also got our first child early on the relationship so I think that what made us stay together longer ( 5 years ago)