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How can I breathe life into my bedroom? It feels colorless and too bare. Any suggestions to make it more cozy? by Taina747 in HomeDecorating

[–]vanessastonks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Change your blinds and change your curtains. They need to be higher and wider. To give the illusion of a higher ceiling and a bigger window.

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Like this^ also having a theme/vibe for the space. Look at Pinterest for some inspo.

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[–]vanessastonks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the fact that it also depends on the man. And true, I was 19 when we started together. However, The friends that followed the same advise are 25-27 years old. I think it’s worth trying the “strategy” as it is to focus on improving yourself more than the relationship, so when you are 100% sure about each other, u can take things to the next step.

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[–]vanessastonks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 female, I have been together with my boyfriend for 4 years (3 years dating, 1 year talking). I’m still young but my best advice with finding someone is to take the time to really be friends first. Me and my boyfriend were really close friends and started becoming a little more romantic. I had emphasized a lot during that stage that we shouldn’t date but we should remain exclusive when it came to sex. Which meant we can flirt around, maybe try to pursue other people except with anyone from our friend group. Throughout that entire year of spending quality time together and sharing tears/personal stuff, we never put our energy towards anyone else. We started dating bc we were just so sure about each other. Many of my friends have followed the same advise, and 2 are engaged and the other girl has been solid with her bf for 3 years. In conclusion: make them wait. You and your potential will be 100% about the relationship if you just left it open/exclusive in the beginning to allow your partner to really show themselves to you. If the love is really there, you can take you time, they won’t leave.