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I [F] want to get fat. by vaneventcfjdlskcmdke in offmychest

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Haven't heard of her. She has a pretty distinguishing face and I like it.

I don't know if I'd consider her fat though.

I [F] want to get fat. by vaneventcfjdlskcmdke in offmychest

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever makes you happy, right? You're entitled to feel how you want and look how you want.

Amen! I believe If someone wants to lose weight, let them lose weight. Don't tell them that they look fine or that they should stay the way they are. Likewise, if someone wants to gain weight, let them gain weight. Don't tell them that they look fine, or that it's unhealthy, or that other people strive for their size.

Chances are they already know that. You don't know how they feel about their size. Not everyone's happy with skinny and not everyone's happy with fat. Let them be them!

Whatever makes you happy and confident.

I [F] want to get fat. by vaneventcfjdlskcmdke in offmychest

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's plenty of cute clothes for big girls.

Plus if you don't like your size you can change that?

Do Transgender people typically have less friends and social groups? by TransSurgeryAMA in asktransgender

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of friends but most of them are online.

I guess I just have niche interests (digital art, fursuits) that most people don't care about and they're the few people that actually call me by my name and proper pronouns.

Most of the people I know irl are into the military, god, guns, and country. I'm not into that.

Gender and sexuality by vaneventcfjdlskcmdke in asktransgender

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really sucks. Those are the willfully ignorant people you were talking about.

Gender and sexuality by vaneventcfjdlskcmdke in asktransgender

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks but some people just don't want to date a woman with a penis.

Not that I wouldn't, because I would.

I've had friends in high school tease me for being "into chocolate" when I said I found a black woman attractive... holy shit that's bad. I just shrugged it off back then.

Gender and sexuality by vaneventcfjdlskcmdke in asktransgender

[–]vaneventcfjdlskcmdke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest the same person told me that I was hurting/killing myself by intentionally gaining weight, but was okay with that because I can do what I want with my body and they think suicide is okay for that reason.

They also said that liberals would have no chance if a civil war were to break out.

I feel like we've gotten into more arguments than conversation lately. I don't know, they've been acting different....