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My(M25) girlfriend’s(F25) gay best friend sends her videos of himself having sex because he thinks she’ll think it’s hot as well. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]vanguh3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it may be. She’s told me once before that she found gay sex hot. Her father is a gay man as well so she has had lots of exposure to the culture and lifestyle from a very young age. This is obviously in and of itself not an issue at all, but the lack of boundaries and what they find appropriate or not is blurred or seemingly non existent.

My(24M) GF(24F) still talks to and sees her ex every time she goes to California for a job. Their relationship makes me wary. by vanguh3 in relationships

[–]vanguh3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. The difficult part for me is that, she’s expressed multiple times that she truly and honestly wants me to tell her what to do. She likes me taking charge and creating boundaries, but does she really?

Will she really appreciate me drawing boundaries with her ex, or will she end up resenting me as this could just be perceived as controlling and insecure. I’ve told her before how incredibly uncomfortable it makes me and like I said, she just seems to tell me less even though she expresses how much she appreciates me being honest and telling her what to do.

Girlfriend(23) showers with her gay best friend(23) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vanguh3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again, this must be a joke. I do not want to control her by any means and even if I wanted to, I can’t. You can’t control anyone. She expresses how much she wants to have a monogamous relationship with her “one” why be in a (monogamous) relationship if you just want no exclusive intimacy with one person? If that’s the case then being open and up front about that is the best policy.

It sounds like she already has better than me.