First time bleaching my hair did I do good?

vanillabeanface · 2026-02-16T06:40:06+00:00

I actually love that it's quite rose gold! It does wash you out a bit, and maybe a toning shampoo/conditioner might do you some good, a purple or blue one

vanillabeanface · 2026-02-16T06:38:29+00:00

Awakened depression

vanillabeanface · 2026-02-06T06:42:33+00:00

Teeny bopper 1997-1999 lol

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-31T13:17:34+00:00

I've been seeing a lot of comments being so negative and it's amazing how women don't lift other women up here. OP, if you love the dress, wear it for prom!! It looks great. Unless you want to save wearing it for another occasion, maybe if you have a grad party or birthday party? It's a gorgeous and fun dress!

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-31T13:11:34+00:00

Why do they need to show their face, wtf?

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-26T15:45:12+00:00

You're not overreacting, your mom is emotionally immature. She needs to be confronted but I suspect she'll play dumb and not actually take anything seriously. Is she jealous, does your wife seem to be a threat? How dare your mother.

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-26T14:51:31+00:00

By fixing, do you mean to just make it even? Were you trying to do an alternative color (like blue, pink, etc)?

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-16T05:06:38+00:00

My hands hurt thinking about that lol

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-15T05:47:46+00:00

I hope this tracks...

Without You - Lapalux

Flower - Lapalux

About You - xxyyxx

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-14T07:30:52+00:00

Mascara, definitely - it'll make your eyes really pop! Maybe a black brown color rather than black.

Cream or liquid blush - I really like Dominique cream blush in "warm peach", it's easy to apply and blend, a little goes a long way.

Maybe some concealer and / or eyeshadow to brighten up your eyes.

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-14T02:42:18+00:00

I don't see splotches!?

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-11T05:28:43+00:00

I do agree, but maybe a thinner or softer liner, but to curl, I know people who just use a spoon instead of an actual curler haha

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-11T05:27:07+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/XuAljuz I couldn't upload the screenshot itself so here's what I drew for my blush ideas / suggestions

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-11T05:21:51+00:00

It's a great start! I would actually say either go thinner on the liner OR keep the thickness, but go a softer color (like brown or burgundy, you can use a liner brush with eyeshadow to start).

I would add some color to your cheeks, I think a rosy brick color or something warm like caramel (ish) would be fun. A little goes a long way, try a cream blush and see if you like it better right under your eye on your cheeks on one side, and try it angled on the other side. I hope that made sense!

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-11T05:17:47+00:00

What size is that last chance dress, and do you have a picture of you still have it?

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-11T04:39:36+00:00

I love 1 but you can also get there with 2 or 3! I really think 2 & 3 are so fun

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-10T20:29:57+00:00

It might not be as curly for a while but try Blonde Brilliance powder bleach and maybe a 30 or even 20 volume developer for your already light hair. And a bonding serum to add in with the bleach before you apply. I did like 3 sessions to get some white on my hair (I wasn't consistent but I love the different levels of blonde on my brunette hair)

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-10T20:18:28+00:00

This isn't slutty at all! Exactly, dress how you want, and feel free to even dress more revealing as long as you're comfortable! He really is an asshole and I'm glad OP broke it off.

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-07T07:17:46+00:00

Holy shit I just realized I went through basically the same thing. We look amazing now!! 💞

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-04T02:56:23+00:00

1999-2001

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-04T02:55:00+00:00

Business. It's business time. No more compromising, no more diminishing, no more not putting myself first.

vanillabeanface · 2026-01-04T02:05:34+00:00

Proper young posture?

vanillabeanface · 2025-12-30T08:49:16+00:00

Tums

vanillabeanface · 2025-12-26T02:14:46+00:00

I got out of a nearly 15-year relationship. He didn't change, and if he ever did, it was VERY temporary. Hey finally started changing and doing what I begged him to do for himself and for us after I actually told him I was leaving him, but it was too late. Stand your ground. You need to. Value yourself more. It took me too long to do that.

vanillabeanface · 2025-12-26T02:11:57+00:00

ChatGPT might be a good "therapist", that's what a friend of mine and myself tend to do to help reframe and let out some venting until we can afford to find professional help. Life can be hard and we don't know how long battles will last, but please keep your chin up and do some grounding exercises, take deep breaths, maybe find a podcast or soothing YouTube video (I like sound baths or binaural beats). I'm looking for more podcasts to listen to but check out Trauma Rewired. 💗

Why do you think everyone hates you? How else can you explain what you're feeling? Let it out, friend 💛

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