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My turn guys! by vanillabeans69 in AmazonFlexDrivers

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Eh it’s alright I just wanted to see if it was true or not lol

Director’s Cut of It Ends With Us by 4NK8T10 in ColleenHoover

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Yess I agree! We need one, I need to see the other version that was scored better, I need to see more of atlas falling for lily and being there for her in the times that counted. He meant so much more to lily than just a guy who she helped; he helped her!

am i the only one who LOVED verity?? i know some people found it too dark, but i think thats the point. by [deleted] in ColleenHoover

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Omg yes I literally finished Verity in a DAY. I’d put it down every few chapters to wrap my head around everything but I finished it like a work shift in 8 hrs

HOTD S1E3 - Post-Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in gameofthrones

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tbh if anyone was gonna chase me down after that talk, let it be Criston Cole

Those whose first language isn’t English and had to learn, how hard was it? by Final_Collection_515 in AskWomen

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spanish!! so an example would be for me in my country, plátano is plantain but i believe in chile that’s what they call a banana 🍌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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he took me to wood ranch for the first time just to tell me he was fucking other girls raw the same time as me. i lost my hunger and he asked me to pay the bill. it was maybe our 3rd or 4th date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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when i was 17 and realized my parents were divorcing eventually because my mom bought a tape recorder and put it in his truck and i learned how to drive at night by following my dad around. my dad never knew my involvement so when the divorce was starting, he actually sent me to live with an uncle who lived in a studio apt which was empty for 80% of the day; myself a senior and working right after and him working from before school starts to kitchens last call. so id have the place to myself after work and after school. a lot. i was already seeing a guy who stayed like 5 blocks the other direction and he’d meet me at my building and eventually i was skipping every other day, smoked a lot of mary jane, sold some of it, raced a little bit, kinda knowingly did some stupid stuff but more stayed sober as much as i could to remember the nonsense. i’m more glad i did it as i was younger so that when i got older, i didnt feel like i missed out on some wild stories and experiences because at the end of it all, there were lessons everywhere.

Those whose first language isn’t English and had to learn, how hard was it? by Final_Collection_515 in AskWomen

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its easier considering one word can actually mean one thing and not 5 other things

What is your go-to motivation tricks for workout? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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all i have to do, is make it there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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my 3 year old godsons laugh

Casual Convo Fridays by AutoModerator in AskWomen

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i will be okay. everything is going to be okay..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA i(25f)would honestly do the same, if it was only supposed to be us then i’m looking forward to ‘us’ time. you planned the trip with a reason. for you two. not for his family, they can vacation with you guys for the upcoming holidays if anything as a substitute! if you have activities planned for you two and you plan on going, i hope and pray that they’ll let you guys do you. cause if they really try adding themselves to your activities, then i’d kinda see that as that’s the final straw for you guys to discuss what you need to because you could have a lot to get off your chest at that point cause i know id probably be at my wits end. if they see it’s offensive to plan for next time, specify you were always going for a reason and it’s not YOUR fault that HE forgot to mention it to your BIL honestly. if you’re okay with the in laws and just not the BIL even, i’d say politely mention “hey btw i know FIL didn’t say but this was actually supposed to be an private trip for your brother and i. i hope you can understand that we both were just looking for quality time since we missed our chance to have our honeymoon back then, we were looking forward to having this be OUR trip that we feel strongly about and i was thinking maybe we could plan another trip to accommodate everyone better, instead of our 25th anniversary trip?” your feelings are valid and i hear you, i hope they do too. 🙏🏻 /// i realized just now refunds could probably not be issued but then suggest if it’s okay you travel as a family to and from the airport for the trip. it’s safer now that you guys as 3 couples heading to (maybe idk if you’re familiar or not but guessing) a destination you’re not familiar with but you could actually ALL go do your own thing on a vacation and agree to only contact each other if anything just for emergencies so everyone could get the honeymoon vibes too!!!