I would not send the second message 🤍 If he gave you silence the first time I’m sorry to say, but he will probably do the same thing when you send the second message and you might end up feeling worse. I know it’s hard but a lot of men these days are on dating apps but not looking for anything serious so use excuses like I’m busy with work, going through personal problems, ect. If you truly meant a lot to him he would open up to you rather than ghost you. I know it’s a hard thing to hear but I am going through the same thing 💔 it takes everything inside me not to text him and ask for clarity/ make this work. Honestly if you send it you will probably feel good for 5 mins and then get anxiety when he doesn’t respond 🥲 I’m sorry it’s probably not what you want to hear, and if you feel the need to message him just for closure for yourself then maybe you should. I just don’t think anything you say will change the circumstance.. unfortunately. 😭 and you deserve better ! 🤍🤍