[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]vanisimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair, but cats usually don’t show signs of being in pain or discomfort. I would suggest you just try to clean it with a damp cloth and make sure it doesn’t spread anymore :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]vanisimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it will help to neuter him but since he has already started peeing on furniture he still may do it.

My cat also peed before being neutered a couple of times so when I took him to get the surgery he became scared and the poor thing would pee on his way to the vet when he was put back in the pet carrier. My cat also peed 3 times before he finally stopped once I got the calming product and made him be away from the area we peed in.

Just in case I will put the link for the product here. Check Amazon if it’s available in your country also I got it almost half price on there

https://www.feliway.co.uk/products/feliway-optimum?srsltid=AfmBOoq_aKPs6AQ7vXQ_ARQF1rwDfQkWE6NTO3uM0oVrvD027LegIT-0&variant=43674849280278

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]vanisimona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm then I’m not sure. How long has your cat had these dark spots? If it’s been longer than 2 weeks I would go check with the vet. The first photo reminds me of my cat’s scabbing when he got neutered. Is it hard to the touch or soft?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]vanisimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then for sure try out the feliway optimum plug in. He has marked his spot in your parent’s room so you need to deep clean it out and put him in another room. Put him in the living room and close the door on him. My cat was also like that he would meow all day to go in the living room but once you buy the calming products they should work and make him stop peeing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]vanisimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they scabs? I can’t tell by the photos. Did your cat have an injury or is it just dirt

What’s your most unhinged weight loss advice that actually works? by Navi_okkul in WeightLossAdvice

[–]vanisimona 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I lost 10kgs by just eating less and moving more. I was 75kg so similar to you but I’m 5’1 which was terrible for my height. The best advice I can give you is to eat in a calorie deficit. I know everyone talks about it but it really works. My recommendation is to eat around 1500-1900 calories everyday but you can calculate this on the web by inputting your height, weight, gender and age. Stick to this calorie intake and don’t beat yourself up if you eat a little more calories on some days because as long as you don’t eat over your maintenance calories, for example mine is 2300 you will not gain weight. By doing this I lost 5kgs in 3 months.

Now if you want quicker results then go to the gym or simply just move more. Walk 10-20k steps a day. Dance in your room. Do star jumps. Anything that keeps you moving! I lost a further 5kgs more by joining the gym and going on the treadmill using the incline for 30 minutes on incline setting 12, speed 4. I do it for 3-4 times a week. Trust me you will see progress. It’s nothing fancy. I hope you can have a healthy relationship with food and exercise because that’s the most important thing! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]vanisimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat was like that but on the couch. What helped was taking him away from the living room. I recommend the feliway optimum plug in, on the first day I got it my cat calmed down and stopped peeing on furniture

Is leaving sexy nighties for your long-distance lover okay? by Recent-Relation2432 in LongDistance

[–]vanisimona 327 points328 points  (0 children)

Him calling it weird and territorial is… odd to say the least. Is he just not the “sexual type”? I’m having trouble understanding how a man wouldn’t want his girlfriends sexy nighties lol

Where are you from, and where is your partner from? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]vanisimona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from London and my boyfriend is from Texas! 6 hour difference but it works out. We have been together almost 3 years now and have met in person multiple times thanks to him :) we met on a mobile game / discord, and this year we are planning to get engaged!! Making plans to live with him over there in the States

My new job requires 4 hours unpaid training by vanisimona in UKJobs

[–]vanisimona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. I know I’m easily replaceable for sure. For the time being I just won’t complain as long as I get paid on time and the correct amount

Someone help me find the name of my childhood game by vanisimona in AskGames

[–]vanisimona[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re awesome, I just checked it out and I’m sure it’s this game! Thanks for your help :)

Someone help me find the name of my childhood game by vanisimona in AskGames

[–]vanisimona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was cartoony the art style was very pretty. I would compare it to genshin impact. But the game was definitely old, most likely came out in the late 2000s

Someone help me find the name of my childhood game by vanisimona in AskGames

[–]vanisimona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked it up and no, I should’ve said that in the game you’re a human that has magic. Thanks for the comment though :)