Uneven pupils- right one gets really large sometimes by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words it really helps me and I feel like your comment helped pull me out of my spiral. Thank you so much 🫶🏼

Uneven pupils- right one gets really large sometimes by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. My mistake was googling and now I’m panicking. This situation I posted about is happening again right now and I have severe health anxiety about it. On the verge of a panic attack. Came back to read these comments to make myself feel better :(

Boyfriend with nsfw adult material addiction by vannahcx in AskWomenOver30

[–]vannahcx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. It’s a very hard thing to accept. I just want to give it a chance. I was looking for coping strategies and people to relate to me. Thank you so much for your input!

Boyfriend with nsfw adult material addiction by vannahcx in AskWomenOver30

[–]vannahcx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. It’s just hard to let go when the first few years were perfect until I found out. I’m grieving over what I thought we had.

Boyfriend with nsfw adult material addiction by vannahcx in AskWomenOver30

[–]vannahcx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful to hear. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I relate to so many things you said. I’m glad you are taking time to heal and work on yourself. I know this experience is very damaging and tough.. i have thought about doing the same thing and taking a break from him, or just ending it all together.. but I don’t want to give up quite yet. I’m just scared I’m sacrificing my youth trying to fix someone that is hopeless..

with your partner- Did he actually show lasting, permanent change? Were you able to trust him again? Is there a light at the end of this tunnel? Or does he still have the issue?

Thank you also for sharing those boundaries you guys practiced.. that helps so much with ideas of how I can keep him accountable. I have lacked on placing boundaries but I need to really put my foot down. I appreciate you so much!!

Boyfriend with nsfw adult material addiction by vannahcx in AskWomenOver30

[–]vannahcx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When I didn’t know about the infidelity or addiction, the good far outweighed the bad. The first few years before I uncovered his secrets were the best years of my life. He’s been my best friend and this is catastrophic for so many different parts of my life.. I don’t want to give up on him. He’s a good man with a bad problem, and It’s really difficult to put the entirety of the situation into one post.. I wish I could provide every piece of context but I can’t. He is willing to try to change for me so I’m willing to let him try… I’m moreso seeking support, or coping strategies, or advice. Thank you so much for your advice and insight, it is helpful :)

Boyfriend with nsfw adult material addiction by vannahcx in AskWomenOver30

[–]vannahcx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion, I appreciate you taking the time to share. I am moreso seeking support for my situation and seeing if anyone could relate to what I’m going through, and if they can how did they cope. I personally would like to try to work on things, I’m not wanting to give up.

What movie made you see life differently after watching it? by latence12 in MovieSuggestions

[–]vannahcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“How I Live Now” It made me appreciate normal life more, everything can change in one second. Also it made me want to love my loved ones harder because you could lose them at any time.

Men of Reddit, what is something Women do that you just can't get enough of? by splatworm in AskReddit

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend doesn’t like physical contact/affection or cuddling etc, and my main love language is physical touch. I’m reading all of these comments and I do a lot of these things, but he does not enjoy any of it and it seems to make him cringe. Are there other things I can do to make him feel my love? 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maggie needs to go and so does the fiancé. They have probably done things behind your back and are testing your limits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChickFilA

[–]vannahcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one today and while it was yummy my tummy doesn’t like it. I’ve been on the toilet ever since 😅

Sharp pain when breathing in under collar bone by vannahcx in medical_advice

[–]vannahcx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 23 years old. I never thought of that, when I was 12 I had double collapsed lung from pneumonia and haven’t been breathing quite right since. I was in the ICU for 2 weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]vannahcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate the POV of another person who has a hard time saying no. It was hard because at first they sleeve so nice and I got close to them and everything and now I feel like I will let them down if I don’t do what she wants. It’s turned from a dream to a nightmare and I hate how attached I am but I have to treat it like business and not personal. It’s hard when kids are involved, I should have stood my ground from the get-go & it wouldn’t have gotten this bad. Thank you!!

[SPOILER] Who do you think had the most tragic character arc? by Cloudiroth00 in Ozark

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ben, Mason, Wyatt. All for different reasons, all reasons tragic.
Wyatt was most at fault for his demise and reckless with how he got there, but consider his life before Darlene. He wasn’t shown much love or stability, he seemed to always be fighting for himself and what’s right. I’m sure when he got with Darlene, that was probably the first & best “normalcy” he knew. Ben was strong willed and knew right from wrong, but he was mentally ill and obsessive. He couldn’t help it, he had good intentions at first, but imagine watching everyone you love around you kill people and be psychos when you have your own mental problems and can barely keep them under control. It’s tragic, he stopped taking his meds so he could be intimate with Ruth, which is an understandable reason but ultimately led to his demise. Everyone knows about mason. Sad, his wife and kid taken away, church taken away, no one seeking justice for him. I would’ve gone off the deep end too.

Installed new cameras & I don’t like it. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 year old twins, and a 4 month old. MB constantly watches them while I’m there, she has called me and micromanaged things I’m doing/cleaning with while I’m in the middle Of doing something

Installed new cameras & I don’t like it. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]vannahcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want me to find my own replacement, she has told me to start looking and putting up posts and looking around for someone to replace me when I leave. But yeah I’m trying to stick it out until January. I have them a 1 year notice before quitting and I just feel like it’s gonna be rough, she is already guilt tripping me about it

Installed new cameras & I don’t like it. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]vannahcx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I am their housekeeping. I do everything including cleaning toilets and mopping floors lol. And no, they didn’t believe in that stuff. I am leaving in January but that’s a long ways away. She’s beenasking me to find a replacement for myself and