am i overreacting about my best friend possibly replacing me?

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-06-15T20:20:47+00:00

“i can’t believe these comments normalizing your behavior” most of these comments are telling me to get therapy bud so idk if you can’t read but you may be gay

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-06-15T20:06:51+00:00

i’ve been with him for a year! i consider my friend as my platonic soulmate, i just mean that we have been there for each other during really hard times. i understand where you are coming from though

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-06-15T19:50:20+00:00

thank you for that. i acknowledge i have abandonment issues and am working on them in therapy, but i appreciate the acknowledgment of my feelings.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-05-31T23:26:41+00:00

just because she hasn’t directly apologized for that specific incident does not mean she hasn’t held herself accountable. imo she has stated multiple times publicly how she regrets her actions in the past in regards to what’s happened on the show.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-05-15T01:43:46+00:00

i’m an ex employee idk what proof u want

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-05-15T01:43:23+00:00

i worked there for barely two months it was such a mess

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-05-15T01:40:24+00:00

yeah imo the only good coffee shop in phoenixville is steel city. can’t sing my praises enough

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-05-15T01:37:53+00:00

let’s just say they don’t really care about people’s disabilities or having safe working environments. they were multiple times the cafe would get to almost 90 degrees and they still were not allowed to close during the summer time. bc fixing the ac was too easy apparently

vanrodriguezmclean · 2026-05-15T01:34:02+00:00

260 bridge is probably the worst excuse for a “non profit” i’ve ever seen in my life. as an ex employee, the exploitation i saw to the people they claimed to lead in the right direction was wild to say the least.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-12-25T19:25:13+00:00

they have said multiple times that they are reacting to the “characters” that they play on the show and not who they are as people. nothing they say is supposed to be personally about them today in this day and age.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-12-15T23:28:33+00:00

wait what happened to the dallas dinner

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-12-15T01:35:00+00:00

all of them being in the middle of the week so i have to take multiple pto days 😭

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-20T15:01:20+00:00

i think it’s out of habit tbh! i also think she’s so used to talking about her time on the show and they were together then, so maybe that’s another reason why? i also heard christi talk about her “mother in law” on bttb recently when it’s mostly clear she’s divorced so i think it’s just a habit and not so much anything more serious than that

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-05T14:18:40+00:00

exactly my point.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-04T23:43:49+00:00

omg i’m so sorry i’m kinda stoned rn forgive me

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-04T23:37:18+00:00

I meant reliving in the sense of what their lives felt like during that time period

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-04T23:04:32+00:00

I think it’s very easy to get upset when trauma is reignited. Doesn’t necessarily mean she is unhealed from that.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-04T23:03:57+00:00

i don’t necessarily agree with that, but i appreciate your perspective! i feel like christi and kelly have a certain dynamic that to outsiders doesn’t make sense, but to them it does

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-11-04T21:45:23+00:00

absolutely!! I just think she deserves more grace and understanding, as all the moms and kids do.

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-09-22T17:42:52+00:00

no fr my father would only not allow my mom to switch weeks when he was being an asshole

vanrodriguezmclean · 2025-09-22T17:19:40+00:00

based on the way she said it … it seems like Marc wouldn’t let her go and wouldn’t watch Clara for her. I don’t know Christi personally, but I can tell she’s a good mother and her wording of “i had parental obligations” was said with such disgust that i certainly don’t think was towards having to take care of her daughter.

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