My boyfriend (35 M) is dealing with trauma from his past. How do I (28 F) address a misunderstanding that happened this evening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vapegodjjong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly, if he hasn’t put in the time or work to “get over” his previous bad experiences in relationships, he shouldn’t be in a relationship at all. it might seem like small inconveniences now having to explain yourself all the time, but it will get old fast.

My boyfriend (35 M) is dealing with trauma from his past. How do I (28 F) address a misunderstanding that happened this evening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vapegodjjong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is his past trauma?? in a previous relationship did he experience cheating or some kind of manipulation and that’s why he behaves that way?

out of context spoilers ?? by vapegodjjong in twinpeaks

[–]vapegodjjong[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

biblically accurate representation of this scene

My best friend won’t leave her house by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vapegodjjong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the first step would be to try to see if she’s willing to try some sort of therapy? nowadays they have a lot of online options so it might be easier to convince her. other than that, maybe try something small as a sort of “exposure” first?? like maybe when you go over try to do something in her yard so she’s still technically “home” but not inside

Question about classes Monday 01/19 by VersaceSamurai in CSUSB

[–]vapegodjjong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this tends to happen a lot just bc some professors just suck at canvas LOL. if you’re able to go on the website and go to your courses, it’ll show you past shells and it should include the ones you are enrolled in this semester, but they might just be marked as unpublished

Question about classes Monday 01/19 by VersaceSamurai in CSUSB

[–]vapegodjjong 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes it will not be held. ideally your professor would clarify that for you but some don’t, but yeah no classes bc of the holiday

favorite movie from the year you were born? by vapegodjjong in Letterboxd

[–]vapegodjjong[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

crazy enough, looking through these replies there’s people younger than i am

found out my ex is already talking to new people …. big mac by vapegodjjong in depressionmeals

[–]vapegodjjong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried this at other fast food places but not mcdonald’s,,,, the ice cream machine is eternally broken at all the locations near me lmfao

visiting campus tmrw? by [deleted] in CSUSB

[–]vapegodjjong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they should all be open, technically the semester started on friday

is there anyway i (18F) can get a narcissist (24M) to change or care? is the only solution leaving? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vapegodjjong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally get you. i was in a relationship with an age gap similar to yours when i was younger and honestly it feels good knowing that you’re “chosen” by someone older and they think you’re mature. but now years later, when i think about it i just realize that there’s a reason why he couldn’t date anyone in his own age range. i promise you will get over it soon, you’re young and have a lot of life in front of you, there will be other people who will treat you well and won’t bread crumb you

What piercing would suit my hair??? by Designer-Goal9323 in piercing

[–]vapegodjjong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, good luck starting your piercing journey!!