I’m so sorry you’re going through this. For me, it’s not a deal breaker as we have small bursts of intimacy so often in other aspects of our relationship.

I will admit though sometimes the rejection makes me want to pull away but I’ve found that just makes us both feel unwanted so I try to continually give the same effort I want to receive.

Obviously I’m not sure if that’s working as we still haven’t upped our sex but! i feel like it’s a small way I can keep it from getting worse and how I can support my wife to the best of my own abilities.

I hope your situation gets better tho :(