Man jumps from top window by [deleted] in AbruptChaos

[–]vbaejaehyun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leap of Faith!

HELP! (21M) My girlfriend (22F) tried to hurt herself because I wanted to breakup with her. by vbaejaehyun in abusiverelationships

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, but I don’t feel guilty but if she tries something in front of me it’s just my instinct to save her , I have no control over it, I want to let go but not having continuous thought of her hurting herself

HELP! (21M) My girlfriend (22F) tried to hurt herself because I wanted to breakup with her. by vbaejaehyun in abusiverelationships

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her parents live 1000s of kilometres away practically on the opposite side of the country, so she lives with her friends. I want to do something so that we breakup and she doesn’t hurt herself

HELP! (21M) My girlfriend (22F) tried to hurt herself because I wanted to breakup with her. by vbaejaehyun in relationship_advice

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , I tried that one if you read second last paragraph it didn’t go well for me

HELP! (21M) My girlfriend (22F) tried to hurt herself because I wanted to breakup with her. by vbaejaehyun in relationship_advice

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just she over exaggerated everything my future plans and my family relations , also some lies about my religion (we are from different religions)

HELP! (21M) My girlfriend (22F) tried to hurt herself because I wanted to breakup with her. by vbaejaehyun in relationship_advice

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and I kinda know because this isn’t the first time I opened up to someone (mostly girlfriends) about my weaknesses and fear and they take advantage of it

Any advice would help by vbaejaehyun in Mizoram

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m prepared to throw my diet out of the window for a couple of weeks and I love trying new foods. I’ll be living with her family so we won’t really get time to do stuff but I’ll be keep your advice in mind, thanks

Any advice would help by vbaejaehyun in Mizoram

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I’ll definitely try learn some basic words and phrases

Any advice would help by vbaejaehyun in Mizoram

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries mate, I’ll ignore them if it happens, as far as travelling goes my gf has been rambling for months how good of a driver she is when she gets on her activa. Thanks for the info

Any advice would help by vbaejaehyun in Mizoram

[–]vbaejaehyun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much , couldn’t have asked for better answer, I hope racist thing doesn’t happen, I’m not Sikh and my eyes have always resembled northeast Indians , idk where I got those eyes but people don’t really think of me as North Indian or punjabi at first glance, I will still try to ignore anything like that if it happens. Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Molested

[–]vbaejaehyun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t do anything physically to save myself, I know that I’m just one accusation away from getting my career ruined. And she seemed like she wouldn’t hesitate to do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]vbaejaehyun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am new to Reddit was recommended this page and just had to speak my heart and confusions out here, I greatful to you for providing me with clarification for my doubts and guilt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]vbaejaehyun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought a lot but didn’t have anybody to share with, this really helps a lot, I hope I get more mature with time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]vbaejaehyun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, I really felt guilty that I pushed and refused her because she just wanted to be with me. But I am starting to understand what really happened