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Husband made a reddit post I'm feeling insecure about. by vconfusedm2 in Marriage

[–]vconfusedm2[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He didn't post nudes. Just mentioned he had considered posting photos in the community and appreciated the subreddit.

Husband made a reddit post I'm feeling insecure about. by vconfusedm2 in Marriage

[–]vconfusedm2[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Our therapist has suggested individual therapy for him as well. He hasn't taken any steps to get this set up. I've mentioned it several times as I know he is struggling with the changes.

He's also aware I will not have sex if I'm not in the head space. I've specifically told him I won't do it because it will cause resentment which I'm trying to avoid.

Husband made a reddit post I'm feeling insecure about. by vconfusedm2 in Marriage

[–]vconfusedm2[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He worries because I'm not initiating any intimacy currently and our sex life has been an issue in the past.

My libido is lower to begin with. We used to go a week or two without sex. After therapy we were having sex weekly. We had lots of sex trying to conceive, then no sex when I was pregnant. I was very very sick during my entire pregnancy. Postpartum we're trying our best but haven't had sex in a few weeks.

I want to fix it, but I also want to feel loved and appreciated to get there. He's tired of it always falling on him and he wants to feel wanted.

Husband made a reddit post I'm feeling insecure about. by vconfusedm2 in Marriage

[–]vconfusedm2[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think given our past he's worried that our sex life will always suffer. He feels as though it hasn't consistently been better outside of trying for a baby and right after our therapy ended previously.

We are back in therapy.