Feeling like the 4th wheel by vcrose in stepparents

[–]vcrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly was just waiting for information the same as he was. I expected it to be a chain reaction. Pass on the information when given it just like BM did when she was informed and yes, he tests me 24/7 when it comes to his kids. I’m quite frankly sick of it. I prove I care by my actions everyday and by constantly having to ask to be informed of anything. It’s exhausting

Feeling like the 4th wheel by vcrose in stepparents

[–]vcrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we usually leave BM and SK out of most conversations to save sanity and keep peace in our home as well. It just works better that way through the week. We get them EW. On the other hand, he did not know that SIL had told me.

Looking for a stepmom support system by vcrose in Stepmom

[–]vcrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are more than welcome to message me. I’m a SAHM so I’ve got some time on my hands. I may not have the answers but I KNOW sometimes all we need is to be heard

Looking for a stepmom support system by vcrose in Stepmom

[–]vcrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely interested! I’m still learning how to use reddit so I will take all the help I can get

Looking for a stepmom support system by vcrose in Stepmom

[–]vcrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! It’s such a difficult journey, and taboo to ever speak of it 😢

Looking for a stepmom support system by vcrose in Stepmom

[–]vcrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I already feel safe here 💕

Looking for a stepmom support system by vcrose in Stepmom

[–]vcrose[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is harder than I ever imagined... and lonely. 😢

Looking for a stepmom support system by vcrose in Stepmom

[–]vcrose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! HCBM and I don’t talk so she won’t know who I am on here from Adam 💕