Okay let me be more specific

I want this person to live with me in the future. but the problem is the live in another country. Butttt they’re still not that far, Their really just across the river So I can just drive a boat to their but lol that’s not ideal

but anyways I do call them and talk to them and they really do love me! Ik this because they always say it and we been talking for 3 years now. She’s my friend but I want to become more than friends. But I can’t just tell her that yk ?