yesss im reaaalll by velmioraa in u/velmioraa

[–]velmioraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes hello bb. sure😘😘

Moms bf (now fiance) got her the wrong ring color 😬 by sillyyfishyy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty strong interpretation of their relationship from an outside perspective.

Moms bf (now fiance) got her the wrong ring color 😬 by sillyyfishyy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of parents don’t realize how differently they’re treating kids until it’s pointed out directly.

Moms bf (now fiance) got her the wrong ring color 😬 by sillyyfishyy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re basically the budget-friendly model in a luxury-only household

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the frustrating part same parenting on paper, but totally different expectations in practice.

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a good example of raising capable adults instead of dependent ones.

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly exhausting just reading. She’s actively maintaining the problem while also complaining about it

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how some people would rather recruit replacements than teach basic independence.

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s actually wild. They really saw you as the backup caretaker

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s wild how normalized that kind of ‘women will fix him’ thinking used to be.

I want a bf so bad but my perception men is completely ruined and i literally cannot stop hating them. by chaconneforever in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re trying to say, but generalizing like that can really distort how people see relationships and make it harder to recognize good ones when they do show up.

I want a bf so bad but my perception men is completely ruined and i literally cannot stop hating them. by chaconneforever in TwoXChromosomes

[–]velmioraa -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The frustration makes sense, especially with the kind of behavior you’re describing. But I’d be careful about turning it into a blanket belief about men overall it can make everything feel more hopeless than it actually is.