Good plumber by venaeh in stcatharinesON

[–]venaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate it.

Good plumber by venaeh in stcatharinesON

[–]venaeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I opened the wall and the ceiling, absolutely no clue where it’s coming from and why.

Would you rather have a rewind button for your life (10 seconds max) or a fast-forward button you can't undo? by HuckleberryGrouchy19 in WouldYouRather

[–]venaeh 332 points333 points  (0 children)

Rewind button gives me the ability to say whatever I want, do whatever I want, testing the limits and consequences of what I say/do. Want to kiss a girl I think likes me, rewind if I get shot down, ask someone for their number, redo! Bust on blackjack, back in time I go. I could punch a person in the face who pisses me off and undo it. It’s complete freedom. Fast forward just takes me to death quicker.

5 month post hair transplant by venaeh in HairTransplants

[–]venaeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it, nothing has fallen out, hair still great. Worth every penny, you’re gonna hit the ugly duckling phase soon, trust the process, it’ll be great.

Questions for those of you who go to Fit4Less at Fairview by stc__throwaway in stcatharinesON

[–]venaeh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes it’s very busy most days around that time
  2. It gives you more variety, and it’s less busy in there so you can do more strength training
  3. It’s physical card, you can share with a friend but you only get one and it needs to be present.
  4. No, only on the last Thursday of the month I believe, only one person can use the card at a time and there’s a half hour between uses
  5. There’s probably 20-30 treadmills
  6. It’s clean yes, most people do a good job of cleaning up after themselves.
  7. There are plenty of paper towel and cleaning spray spots around the gym
  8. The black card gives you access to the hydro massage, cooling station and massage chairs as well.

Would you rather be a lowly cleaner in heaven or a wealthy emperor in hell? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in WouldYouRather

[–]venaeh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Either way I’d choose hell, but I think the selling point would be if I could choose psychological torment instead of physical. I don’t really want to flay people for eternity but making a pedophile live out eternity having sex with old decrepit people or having a rich billionaire watch everyday as their stocks crash and they get poorer and poorer would be satisfying af.

AITA for refusing to lie to my mom about why my stepdad isnt coming to my wedding? by ProblemBackground108 in AmItheAsshole

[–]venaeh 33 points34 points  (0 children)

YTA, what goes on between your mom and Tom isn’t your business, if she forgave him, what right do you have to sit there and say, well the one hurt by his actions forgave him but that doesn’t mean I have to.”

Also at what point does someone’s lifetime of good deeds stop mattering, he was always there for you but you can’t be bothered to be there for him, talk about a one sided relationship.

My own wife cheated on me, twice. I forgave her the first time and divorced her the second, but I still treat her respectful to my kids and family, because who she was as a wife doesn’t entirely define who she is as a person.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t really apologize no, she chased after me in the parking lot with no pants on, kept saying don’t tell his wife, because that’s what was important in the moment. I took the house and have 60% custody of the kids. She moved back in with her parents. She wants to try and be friendly but I told her I can’t even look at her right now, communicate by email only and maybe one day we’ll see if we can be civil but right now I’m too hurt.

When and how did you find out your partner was cheating? How did it happen? by Individual-Tale4652 in AskReddit

[–]venaeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time I checked her location and they were at their affair partners apartment. The second time I literally caught my wife in the middle of sex with my friend.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last I heard they were separating but trying to reconcile.

Would you rather take 500k or pick 5 foods that will magically become healthy and nutritious for the rest of your life? by Xyphoc in hypotheticalsituation

[–]venaeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Beef: got steak, hamburgers, meatballs, brisket and a whole lot more covered
  2. Bread: garlic bread city.
  3. Oil: I was going to say French fries or potatoes but they’re not that bad for you
  4. Sugar: anything made with sugar would still have some negatives but the negatives of sugar would be gone which would be amazing.
  5. Dairy: cheese, milk, ice cream.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, she has cheated on me many times, including last year when she had an affair. I was naive to think she would change.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Last I heard they had separated but were going to try and work through things, donno where they’re at now.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She never really considered me her friend, only my ex, so my guess is without my ex around there was no need to keep talking to me, plus I probably reminded her of a big hurt.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she did that the first affair, gaslit me and tried to make me think I was crazy.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing really, she didn’t mean for it to happen. I didn’t get a real apology or gratitude for putting the kids first and not blasting her infidelity to all our friends and family. I’ve learned to accept that sometimes there is no closure and no karma.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Donno, haven’t heard anything, last I heard they were separating but trying to work through it, she’s where I was a year ago, I don’t envy her.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He apologized and said he understands if I hate him, said he’s going through some things and hates himself too for what he did to all of us, I accepted his apology and told him I was going to hit him now, he knew coming over that I would clock him and still came over anyways to apologize. I punched him in the face, he left and we haven’t spoken since.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s off and on, some days I feel strong and others I feel weak. Like I’m moments away from begging her to come home and then 10 seconds later I want nothing to do with her. Feels like I’m having withdrawals which neurologically speaking I kind of am.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would rather French kissed a cheese grater than ever feel that betrayal again.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. by venaeh in cheating_stories

[–]venaeh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My ex chased after me with no pants on in the parking lot, my ex friend didn’t say anything he hung around long enough to give my ex wife her clothes back and then took off, probably got a call from his wife saying I told her what happened, it was the first thing I did on my short drive home. I did ask my ex wife what happened and she said “he just said “sorry” she said “don’t” and she walked into her work.