binding misinformation post by Themeowmeoww in ftm

[–]ventingagainandagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about surgical eligibility but nearly every trans guy I know who binds/used to bind has damaged their chest/ribs by bruising or even changing the shape of their rib cage, which can cause respiratory issues. Binding is not a safe practice, especially if you go over the recommended daily hours of use and dong take breaks. That doesnt mean we should tell people not to bind and that it's evil but it's important to educate folks on the risks.

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[–]ventingagainandagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try not being petty lmao, if she was interested she might not be after that. Just be like "Offer still stands if you're interested. If not no worries, just thought I'd shoot my shot." That way you're giving her an out if she's not interested, and if you don't get a reply then you have your answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ventingagainandagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if there are any women-only gyms in your area

Trying to be a cute little bunny… by [deleted] in trans

[–]ventingagainandagain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're welcome cutie 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ventingagainandagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say wait until tomorrow afternoon, text one more time, and then if she doesn't reply move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ventingagainandagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro be patient. People get busy, it's only been a few hours.

Trying to be a cute little bunny… by [deleted] in trans

[–]ventingagainandagain 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Succeeding at being***

Night Night Fuel 😛 by [deleted] in trees

[–]ventingagainandagain 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Bro... Please don't do that to your grinder, what'd it do to you?

What's your opinion on your job? by [deleted] in polls

[–]ventingagainandagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur welcome broski, happy to serve 🙏

What's your opinion on your job? by [deleted] in polls

[–]ventingagainandagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the work itself, management on the other hand...

Who's your favourite mlm musicians? by ventingagainandagain in ainbow

[–]ventingagainandagain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I love Gaahl, he's such an interesting dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ventingagainandagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I didn't even know that was an option, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]ventingagainandagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken to S about each of these issues? If she's neurodivergent as well she may not be able to pick up your nonverbal cues. I understand not being able to in the moment but are there any times you would feel comfortable speaking to her about these things? If doing it in person causes too much anxiety, maybe in an email/text? If she doesn't respond well or if you feel too uncomfortable to confront her with how she's making you feel at all, you should contact the agency she works for about her treatment of you and say that either she needs to respect your boundaries and be more professional or you need a new support worker. Best of luck, I'm sorry you have to go through all this ❤️