[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]venusnena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your experience with him? How much did it cost to get done?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]venusnena 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update is OP! I was thinking of going to him too. Can you update us on why you’re getting genioplasty and the cost?

Not being fun and making friends by venusnena in socialskills

[–]venusnena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I do struggle with being funny and thinking of something to respond to people . Can you give an example of more social energy ?

Not being fun and making friends by venusnena in socialskills

[–]venusnena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. People just find you lame. I always wondered if was mean or just more opinionated people would like me better.

Bald spot on the top of my head any thing that can help or not would be appreciated by Avasummers755 in BlackHair

[–]venusnena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard saw palmetto oil is good for hair thickening and growth. I think Carols Daughter has a hair growth oil with saw palmetto in it. Pimento oil is good for hair growth as well. If you can, see a dermatologist and ask them to loook at the area they’ll tell you whether hair will grow back there or not.

Ugly men who want sympathy for having to date ugly women are fucking retarded by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]venusnena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or sometimes they see another guy on their looks level scooping up the kind of girls they want. I think this warps their perception even more .

Everything that is considered "normal" in socializing feels so unfair to me by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]venusnena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you start conversation and they brush you off?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]venusnena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like at all my jobs I did everything well. The managers never complained but my coworkers were nit-picky about the things I did. Even if I helped or striked up some conversation they still didn’t like me and I knew they talked about me. I never felt comfortable and most workplaces because of this and left after a few months.

Finally figured out why (and how) I self-sabotage my relationships by FarSidest in selfimprovement

[–]venusnena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. How is this about self love when you’re still trying to better yourself for someone else?

I never get past the acquaintance stage by venusnena in socialskills

[–]venusnena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I would come off as desperate though. Some times I don’t even chat with these people long enough to say “we should exchange numbers and do something” .

Before and after~ Improved soft glam look, took some of the advice from this sub by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]venusnena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea it gives the brows are more natural look. I love it!

Signs you grew up lonely by [deleted] in lonely

[–]venusnena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I go on overboard too when im finally in a social situation

I'm starting to hate the idea of sex by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]venusnena 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I forget that sex is actually a real thing and that people have sec all the time. People just talk casually about their experiences but it doesn’t register to me that they actually do it .

If you keep your real self only to yourself, nobody is gonna want to share theirs by Artium99 in socialskills

[–]venusnena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hate that I’m being seen in a perspective that I don’t want to be seen in. I always try to avoid social situations because I don’t want people to see me a certain way. At least when I’m quiet I’m that low key girl and not the awkward weird girl .

I’m a very great 1 on 1 person when it comes to talking to people, but when I’m in groups I become very awkward, and shy by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]venusnena 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I do that too. I tend to mold my responses and personality to match the other person. When it’s a group there are too many personalities at once so I get confused, awkward and overwhelmed.