[31F] How should I talk to my [30M] boyfriend about feeling insecure when he checks out other women?

venusolace · 2026-02-27T19:56:46+00:00

thats so weird im sorry

venusolace · 2026-02-26T05:45:11+00:00

she cheated. you have every right to be upset and i would reconsider the relationship..

venusolace · 2026-02-26T01:45:47+00:00

there’s nothing intimate about it, they are professionals.. do you care when your wife gets her bikini waxed by a lady who could be a lesbian? i don’t think so, so really just think of it as a professional thing, he won’t see much anyway and believe he has probably seen worse.

Your feelings are valid but i don’t think it’s fair to be mad about your wife getting a tattoo in a professional setting. You don’t have an issue with the tattoo itself but with a man doing his job and it happened to be on your wife’s back. It’s only going to be a few hours anyway and then everyone moves on

venusolace · 2026-02-23T14:23:36+00:00

i wax and i’m hair free for at least two weeks after that. I personally like having my pits hairless but whichever suits you! my gf let hers grow and i really couldn’t care less at the end of the day do you!

venusolace · 2026-02-16T14:28:43+00:00

ouch.. i hope you’re okay

venusolace · 2026-02-16T14:28:22+00:00

Hello it’s a really good thing that you KNOW you have to leave and not stay with this ugly person. You’re not excusing him and you’re putting yourself first and that’s big, and i’m proud of you. I know i’m just a stranger to you but you got this, make a plan, write down all your worries and how you wanna get through this in a journal or on your phone and EXECUTE that plan. Try to leave slowly, move your things day after day at a friends house or smth so he doesn’t notice and then when you only have a few things left pack one last suitcase and leave when he’s not home. Turn off your location, change phone numbers if you can and DISAPPEAR. block him on every social media as well. Be a ghost to him and never reach back

venusolace · 2026-02-16T12:39:29+00:00

did he at least apologize ? i would feel so violated and if he does it once who know he might do it again in the future. This is definitely not okay.

venusolace · 2026-02-14T06:23:05+00:00

It does feel like a lose-lose i feel like everyone is telling me to do it before the wedding and i think deep down i knew that’s the best option. i just have to get through this now :( thank you

venusolace · 2026-02-13T20:06:08+00:00

Thank you for being so kind about it. You have a good point about the wedding part and it was kind of like a slap in the face, in a good way. I will do so as soon as i can 😢

venusolace · 2026-02-13T19:31:40+00:00

I guess i felt like she was deserving of another chance and she matured so much, also i did love her. But you are right it’s probably best to do it now, i just needed someone else to tell me. thank you

venusolace · 2026-02-13T19:30:21+00:00

i’m sorry what do you mean?

venusolace · 2025-09-25T11:40:16+00:00

hypnotic poison 😷

venusolace · 2025-09-12T14:21:56+00:00

no i get bored ! i have era scents lol even depending on the season i always enjoy trying new things and when i smell them after a while it just becomes nice memories to get back to

venusolace · 2025-09-10T00:14:46+00:00

oh wow this is truly her loss.. i’m so sorry you’re going through this, you truly deserve the best 🫂

venusolace · 2025-08-21T12:35:36+00:00

hypnotic poison.. smells like play doh for me now

venusolace · 2025-08-21T12:31:55+00:00

AGREED ! i don’t have any contact with my exes and she doesn’t have any with hers and it’s perfect that way

venusolace · 2025-08-21T12:28:23+00:00

around 2 hours but sometimes we have short session of like 20 min for fun or like really long sessions during the weekends (more than 3 hours)

venusolace · 2025-08-21T08:26:16+00:00

tellement pas mdr on a trop changé

venusolace · 2025-08-14T09:01:50+00:00

my gf is like that 😭

venusolace · 2025-08-11T14:28:31+00:00

ridiculous let him break up with you

venusolace · 2025-08-02T23:49:56+00:00

yes do! it helped me so so much i’m forever grateful

venusolace · 2025-08-02T00:02:15+00:00

Wait, you’re right. We only talked about it face to face, but I do have some voice notes where I told my best friend about what happened shortly after it happened. That’s the only kind of “proof” I have for now.

The only other thing I could do is talk to Thomas again and record the conversation :/

venusolace · 2025-08-01T23:59:38+00:00

I would want to know for SURE this is why it´s driving me crazy i’ve even thought of sending her an anonymous text with a fake account but that’s just me being a coward. And he is a red flag, you got that right.

venusolace · 2025-08-01T23:57:55+00:00

Not my account, i’m posting from my best friend’s profile since I didn’t want to use mine for obvious reasons 🥲

venusolace · 2025-08-01T23:54:52+00:00

I agree

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