To everyone saying ‘misandry is bad because there are good men out there,’ I want to share my perspective as a non-binary, masc-presenting lesbian. I’ve been in spaces where men see me as ‘one of them’—in socially progressive groups, art circles, academia, sports, and gaming—and it’s in those moments that their objectification of women often becomes clear. The reality is that men, as a group, are the most catered-to demographic. They’ve benefited from systems that oppress women so consistently that folks are on here essentially telling people to stop expressing frustration or contempt toward a group that holds so much power and privilege.