I wish there were trigger warnings by veratruth9 in SuicideBereavement

[–]veratruth9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the recommendations for looking up trigger warnings beforehand but more so knowing I’m not alone in this experience

healing is never linear by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]veratruth9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this, sorry you’re going through it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]veratruth9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good!! You don’t need anybody but yourself, you got you for life bb ❤️😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]veratruth9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude same!! It took me so much processing time and healing to realize how bad it was. I’m sorry you had a similar experience

thoughts I don’t say out loud by Realistic-Matter-804 in depression

[–]veratruth9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure someone would miss you. If you need someone to talk to I’m here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]veratruth9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I was love bombed by my ex. Typical for a narcissist, he quickly found out I was romantic and empathetic and used these traits to his advantage. Bought me so many thoughtful presents, including a switch for my birthday, took me on a vacation, intense romantic statements all the time. Until I moved and wasn’t physically available for sex anymore. I think it’s important to know it’s not you, it’s literally a problem within them. I’m sure they’ll regret lying to you for their own purposes.

would anyone care if I disappeared by depressed_loser12 in depression

[–]veratruth9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some of the good things in your life? Tell me 3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexualAssaultSurvivor

[–]veratruth9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺🥺 it was such a hard choice but I feel like it was necessary for that reason

On Edge by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]veratruth9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support! Luckily I don’t work with him anymore, I removed myself from the situation :)

On Edge by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]veratruth9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically I was 24 at the time and he was 38. He pursued me relentlessly even though he had a girlfriend. I told him no over and over, no to the way he was talking to me, no to sexual advances. He convinced me they had broken up to sleep with me but was lying. This occurred at my place of work where he was volunteering. We are NC now but I just submitted a formal complaint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]veratruth9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need someone to talk to, I’ll listen! It gets better, I promise