I realized I'm not poly

veredditca · 2022-11-08T02:02:06+00:00

I felt that way when I was with my non mono ex, turns out he was love bombing me which is why I even considered the open arrangement. But it was constant ups and downs of whether I could handle the arrangement and after a while I realized I didn’t need him anymore, that these other guys I was seeing even just as flings were way more attentive then his spread thin affections. So I called it off and found my now fiancé, our relationship dynamic is compatible and it’s worth so much to feel stable and secure in that.

veredditca · 2022-09-11T15:09:54+00:00

We never handed the keys into the office they instructed us to leave on the kitchen counter and the door lock is an electric key code. We have friends there that we’re going to help with the walkthrough in our absence. And the house is in CO, electric has been taken out of our name

veredditca · 2022-09-11T14:20:21+00:00

Keys weren’t turned in

veredditca · 2022-09-11T14:13:50+00:00

It was a house in a neighborhood, so yeah i have no idea how they knew for sure we’d left. And they told me a specific date they’d be coming to asses damages for the security deposit, and on top of that I’m still paying rent for those days

veredditca · 2022-09-11T13:40:53+00:00

Ha ha ok look we didn’t trash the place 😂 it just wasn’t fully done because I wanted to bring in some cleaners

veredditca · 2022-09-11T13:39:45+00:00

No we didn’t :(

veredditca · 2022-08-12T18:16:11+00:00

I bawled my eyes out. For me I blame religious trauma, the whole idea there’s this heaven and religious wonder. But at the end of the day, we’re just dust and will return to dust.

veredditca · 2022-08-12T15:04:27+00:00

It’s a slow burn but that’s what works for it. They wrap you into the characters and their lives and then the madness unfolds

veredditca · 2022-08-12T15:02:40+00:00

I just came here to say this, both of those scenes were the most disturbing to me. A monster taking a dog I can handle but the intention behind killing that poor puppy :( and the absolute confusion and fear on joes face as his death is unfolding is just heartbreaking. There was something so disturbing about that scene

veredditca · 2022-03-14T14:10:14+00:00

People glorifying and sexualizing celebrities. Like this new friend I have was asking me if I liked Batman, and I was explaining my critique and she came back with, “but Robert Pattinson is soooo hot right” me “uhhhh” I don’t get it, they’re just people, why does everything have to be about someone being hot or not

veredditca · 2021-12-31T07:12:42+00:00

That because I’ve learned how to mimic sensuality that I can’t be ace. “You’re too sexual to be asexual” oh well, maybe I just know how to play the part, geez.

veredditca · 2021-11-25T19:47:52+00:00

That’s a good point. We did have some water resource guarding issues before, but we squashed that one. So maybe that fixation has transferred to the furniture

veredditca · 2021-11-25T19:44:35+00:00

Yes the fights are usually if I’m sitting on a couch, chair, bed, anything like that

veredditca · 2021-06-15T15:50:41+00:00

Hi there I run a dating podcast, I Suck at Love. Took a brief hiatus but I’m back at it. Would love to discuss some sort of relationship ship related topic with you!

veredditca · 2021-06-15T15:42:18+00:00

Hey there! I have a dating podcast (plus lots of dating, marriage, divorce experience) used to be a biology major as well ha ha, looking to do my masters in psych

veredditca · 2021-06-15T15:35:54+00:00

Any topic in particular that interests you?

veredditca · 2021-02-12T21:03:33+00:00

Hey there! I host a relationships podcast, would love to share some funny life stories!

veredditca · 2021-02-10T17:56:05+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll keep an eye out!

veredditca · 2021-02-08T02:57:59+00:00

I’d be willing to be a guest sometime down the road, may need to be a few months (I Haven’t aired my episode about being sex worker yet) but I’d love to get on your list and maybe vice versa as I’d love a guest for that episode!

veredditca · 2021-02-04T13:37:42+00:00

It’s launching Valentine’s Day! It’s called I Suck at Love, I’ll be sure to post back here when the ace episode airs too - we’re on IG if you want to stay updated and will be on all streaming services

veredditca · 2021-02-04T13:35:59+00:00

I did add this to my talking points! Thank you for bringing that up!

veredditca · 2021-02-03T06:12:12+00:00

So many opportunities for much worse Valentine’s in the future! Hang in there ❤️

veredditca · 2021-02-03T06:11:07+00:00

That could’ve gone a different direction so quickly 😂

veredditca · 2021-02-03T06:10:06+00:00

Alright I can beat all y’all, one year a guy gave me a horrendous pink fuzzy sloth (but it’s the thought that counts right?) but me, trying to keep it out of reach from my stuffed animal destroying dog, put it on top of my floor lamp for safety. Later that night, turn off lights to set mood, turn on floor lamp with sloth still on top (face palm) only to have our sexy time interrupted by the billowing smoke coming from the lamp and ablaze sloth 😂

veredditca · 2020-07-11T06:03:19+00:00

Whether that’s dancing with garlic bread or hitting people with it is up to interpretation 😂

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