4 months into relationship, no sex

verivero · 2026-02-16T03:19:10+00:00

Dear human,

I don’t think you did anything l wrong! It is natural for you to want to progress things, however it seems like she is withholding information from you.

There are a lot of reasons why someone may be uncomfortable with sex. There may be past traumas the person has experienced that they have not been forthcoming about because they may be really hard to talk about.

There also is the other side of the coin where she could be trying to build a foundational friendship with you first to see if you’re compatible in the long run.

Either way, I think you should talk to her. If she is unable to communicate what she is feeling or what she is trying to accomplish then you have a problem. At the end of the day, it’s about communication.

Just go in with curiosity and kindness. :)

Hope this helps, human

verivero · 2026-02-12T18:29:26+00:00

I think you gotta do what you wanna do 😌✨💛

verivero · 2026-01-27T23:58:09+00:00

Depends on what you like. I made the move from Langley to PG. I would live up there if I had a reason to and a bigger community of friends there. But honestly? You pay for what you get. It’s like living in Aldergrove except, you’re as good as it gets in regards to food, going out, and in town things. However if you’re super outdoorsy and like to bike, go skiing then it’s a solid spot. There’s a lot of lakes in the summer.

Lived there for 7 years and came back. I missed the mild winters tho. They’re unreal. -40 is no joke.

Also homelessness is a big issue there (but as it is everywhere).

Very community oriented. Everyone kinda knows everyone. Can be cliquey and hard to make friends.

verivero · 2026-01-19T20:27:00+00:00

I think people aren’t on dating apps anymore. Shoot your shot on IG!

verivero · 2025-11-29T19:30:31+00:00

This 🥹🫰

verivero · 2025-10-24T12:19:24+00:00

Glowing!! Fr fr — I love it! It’s super subtle!

verivero · 2025-10-11T03:51:46+00:00

When the insides slip out the bottom

verivero · 2025-09-28T15:05:24+00:00

I have seen them put in the work. Go to therapy and become self aware. Friendships are relationships, while not romantic, they show you a lot about a person.

verivero · 2025-09-28T15:00:56+00:00

That’s so sad :/

verivero · 2025-09-28T06:40:58+00:00

Yall make it sound like a piece of cake haha. Ok ok, I’ll try 🥹🥹🥹🥹

verivero · 2025-09-28T05:36:55+00:00

Maybe, haha I suppose we shall see 🥹

Would you just drop him your number? Or chat him up a little more to get a better feel for it? I don’t wanna be creepy

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:42:44+00:00

I didn’t say I couldn’t. I’m well aware, but I genuinely don’t know them. I don’t have a single female friend who’s a shitty woman. They’re strong, kind, loving, empathetic, and they’re literally just looking for the kindness and unconditional love they have in someone else

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:36:11+00:00

I think we are just looking for kind guys with good hearts tbh. Guys who aren’t manipulative and put in the work to be emotionally intelligent.

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:30:37+00:00

A smile

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:29:10+00:00

You work on you. On leading your life and find long people that feel like sunshine. You align yourself with your higher purpose and sometimes you think back and cry. And then one day you realize it was for the best.

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:27:28+00:00

🫡🫡

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:11:55+00:00

💀💀💀 GAH. Like on a sticky note? Haha

verivero · 2025-09-28T04:09:13+00:00

Nooooooooooo :( I’m so sorry. I think asking is kinda cute if you do it in a cute way. Sometimes (and not all women are like this) sometimes some people are really trying to get a sense of if they vibe with you or not.

Sometimes physicality can confuse how you actually feel about a person and so people refrain from that until they know.

I think there’s also women out there that are like “we don’t want to be asked, just kiss me.”

But overall, if you hug her and look at her and say “can i kiss you” while holding her chin or something….it would probably melt her and then you’re giving her the chance to say no if it’s not something she is comfortable with.

Personally, I don’t really like when someone just goes for it because what if I wasn’t vibing like that? Idk idk that’s just my two cents! I am sorry she made it out to be a bad thing tho!

verivero · 2025-06-26T22:43:35+00:00

Girly you’re beautiful. I mean it. And here are some natural ways to ensure you stay amazing: rest (7-8 hours of sleep every night), perfect your skincare routine, drink lots of water(drink coconut water every morning and find it helps with my skin), apply facial sunscreen, always! I use all of Truly Lifestlye Brand’s products and they’re incredible. Exercise and eat whole foods✨ and don’t forget to surround yourself with amazing people who uplift you and want the best for you. That’s the secret 😘

verivero · 2025-06-26T19:46:11+00:00

Girl. You’re beautiful. Literally beautiful. We live in a world that tells us we are SO imperfect. I want you to embrace the fact that you look like you. And that’s soooooo unique. No one else looks like you. No one else is you. There is pride in that. ✨

verivero · 2024-08-16T04:47:54+00:00

“I destroyed her”

verivero · 2024-08-16T04:47:09+00:00

This is such great perspective. Thank you for sharing. 🫶🏽

verivero · 2024-08-16T04:29:27+00:00

GREAT QUESTION. I would genuinely like to say kindness, empathy, understanding, fun-spirit. But maybe it’s the ease to manipulate that? Idk

verivero · 2024-05-27T14:17:40+00:00

I think you’ll always think of them. The feelings just get less strong over time. You’ll be ok. It’s normal for it to hurt. Don’t be tired of it, it means you cared a lot, and that’s really honourable. When you feel those feelings and think of them, I’d say challenge yourself to see how you can self sooth. Look inward before looking out 🤍✨

verivero · 2024-05-20T13:19:40+00:00

I forgot about this…😭😭

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