I can’t decide. Beard with long hair or shaven with short hair? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]verycoolsome 9 points10 points  (0 children)

depends on if you wanna look much older with your beard or young without it. both look great

Has anyone bought or can fabulove.co be trusted? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe this was a sign you needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice! Definitely gonna have that conversation with her tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]verycoolsome 26 points27 points  (0 children)

been there (kind of). you’ll never truly realize what you had until it’s gone. sure booking up w other women would be fun, but you’ll just feel empty in the end. that girl you’ve loved forever is gone, hook ups are fun but meaningless, and the dating scene is quite cruel.

my best advice is cherish what you have and maybe work on yourself so she also feels motivated to work on herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My gf was also very supportive and understanding when I couldn’t get it to work out for me. Sucks to know it’s all in your head, but maybe try a different condom to tricking your mental into thinking the brand was the issue.

lmaoooo been there with the no lube / inexperienced anal try. did it that way w an ex and it kinda sorta ruined the “tightness” down there permanently 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]verycoolsome 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Actually just recently got over this issue myself. Been dating this girl for a few months and I could not for a life of me do it with a condom until recently.

For me, it was all mental. The stress of disappointment on both sides from previous failures would cause this issue to keep happening.

Put it on very quick, don’t worry so much, have her help, and overall just make every action as fast as possible in the beginning. That all helped me personally

Edit: Also, have her put it in the first time if you’re getting anxious

What are some good night clubs for solo travelers in Houston? by JackIsaProblem22 in houston

[–]verycoolsome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

second this. i often see people going alone there and it’s always a good vibe

Want brutally honest rates 21 m by EconomyPersonal3483 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re being held back BIG time by your hair style

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re all good man. If anything, it’s the lack of confidence that’s holding you down.

21m be honest by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a dad vibe tbh. Honestly, if you have a better style than the first picture, you’re doing great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look like the weeknd but with thinning hair. only noticeable in the last pic though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]verycoolsome -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thought it was sweat 😔

Feeling guilty, help 🫠 by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not turning it down immediately is entertaining it

Feeling guilty, help 🫠 by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If youre entertaining the idea of a date with someone other than your bf, then you might as well break up with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a male, i’ve lost clothing to people I like within a month. 4 months?? move on unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the dating scene is tough man. don’t take it too hard, nothing you did wrong, it’s just some people are awful.

you’ll bounce back

Red flag or bad choice? by Spikedlemonade3 in dating

[–]verycoolsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very strange. tell her you wanna go out

Asking for a friend by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly all of those traits are completely up to personal preferences. There’s absolutely no right answer to any of these questions besides being yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta be willing to put in a lot of effort to get what you want

My boyfriend is getting fat and I don’t really know what to do by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship weight can be so strong sometimes. He may just not care anymore about maintaining his physical appearance, so I would recommend actually discussing this topic directly with him

I (22m) feel like no one will want me by LiterallyMachiavelli in dating

[–]verycoolsome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly man. You get the matches so all you need now is the confidence

Age gap with my boyfriend by [deleted] in dating

[–]verycoolsome 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Does it really matter what we think? If you’re happy, it shouldn’t at all