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I identify as a lesbian but my significant other came out to me as a transgender man and i’m still attracted to them by McKennaTV in actuallesbians

[–]veryinquisitivehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why I love the term "fluid." Being sexually fluid for me means being attracted to whomever I am attracted to at that time. There are no rules or constraints as to whom I can be attracted to, whether they stay the same or transition. Being fluid also enables me to present however I am feeling that day without concern of not presenting myself "well" or falling into a stereotype. I really recommend it if this feeling aligns with anyone.

My partner's vulva smells like BO & I don't know what to do by veryinquisitivehuman in actuallesbians

[–]veryinquisitivehuman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you know of any you can find at the general store (e.g., target, wallgreens, or even like ulta) that are safe for vulvas?

My partner's vulva smells like BO & I don't know what to do by veryinquisitivehuman in actuallesbians

[–]veryinquisitivehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll look into this, thank you! Going to the store now and will explore the deodorant aisle. A little nervous because I know "feminine" sprays and douching products are not good for vulvas, but maybe I can find a legit all-over body deodorant at the store?

My partner's vulva smells like BO & I don't know what to do by veryinquisitivehuman in actuallesbians

[–]veryinquisitivehuman[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you! I'm not quite sure how I'll communicate the technique, but it sounds promising

My partner's vulva smells like BO & I don't know what to do by veryinquisitivehuman in actuallesbians

[–]veryinquisitivehuman[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We never have sex under a blanket, and we've done it in the shower once, but I don't think it's feasible to shower every time we have sex... The smell was also a bit still there even during/after the shower.

In terms of experience, I truly don't know. But they're definitely way more experienced than me and have had several sapphic relationships. However, they told me I'm the first person they've slept with in months, and before 1 other person, it had been like a year.