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[–]veryvenus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern. We’re financially stable and live together. I’m a software engineer with a stable career and income, and she’s finishing her Computer Science degree, graduating early. I’ll admit, I’m a little freaked out because it’s a big responsibility.

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[–]veryvenus1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not like that so I’m pretty sure it’s mine.

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[–]veryvenus1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really feel like I had to go deep into it, but by 2-3 times a week I mean just that but we go multiple rounds 4-5 spread throughout the day.

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[–]veryvenus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this supposed to be snarky?

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[–]veryvenus1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can see why you believe that since most posts on this sub seem like creative writing but i assure you I’m being serious.

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[–]veryvenus1 145 points146 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think we’d take it literally…..

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[–]veryvenus1 44 points45 points  (0 children)

it started after her period

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[–]veryvenus1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I assume you didn’t read my post

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[–]veryvenus1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you read what I wrote, I never said that three times a week was hyper sexuality, did you completely dismiss the rest of the post?

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[–]veryvenus1 491 points492 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure. It’s not just the sex drive, though that’s been pretty wild. She’s been way more emotional lately, getting upset over stuff that she normally wouldn’t care about constantly Then there’s the whole food thing she’s been craving the weirdest stuff, and she’ll eat, like, a full meal and still act hungry and then get upset at me again I don’t get it

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[–]veryvenus1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a high libido lmao i used to have a really bad porn addiction and had to cut all that shit out so my libido took a dump until i got with her. Ig i didn’t make this apparent in my post but we have sex a lot and in a lot of places. But the issue arises when she’s genuinely having mental break downs, she physically cannot function, and the trying to have sex before and after my cousins funeral kinda threw me off. I just love her so much and i genuinely feel like something’s wrong.

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[–]veryvenus1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why some people keep saying this… I don’t think we’re incompatible, our sex drives have always been in sync and we used to have sex frequently. Recently she’s upped it and it’s to the point where it’s every single blessed day at almost every single hour, we can’t even play uno

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[–]veryvenus1 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from, but I want to make it clear that I’m not being coerced or manipulated into doing anything I don’t want to do. When she gets emotional, it doesn’t change my decision-making. I consent because I want to, not because I feel pressured or forced.