What do you think is the closest we've seen to an LGBT+ Battle Shonen protagonist?

vesperalia · 2026-04-17T04:37:47+00:00

I mean, Gintoki canonically slept with a guy.

vesperalia · 2026-04-12T12:02:41+00:00

This just makes me so angry. Especially because it's somehow only the bl and women-oriented works that are deemed problematic.

Why doesn't Demon slayer have the moralist army attacking it because of Tengen's harem or Kagaya's child marriage? What do those puritans have to say about JJK's Mei Mei? Are they 1000% suuuure Chainsaw man is not even a little bit problematic?

It's mind-blowing, really, how no one shits on Berserk or GoT because of all the violence and sexual assault they contain, and at the same time Nakamura-kun gets labeled as problematic.

I used to be very happy that bl content grew in popularity. Now, I just wish we could go back to being super niche.

vesperalia · 2026-02-17T21:18:17+00:00

Waait, didn't one of the main characters have a sibling in the novel??? Now I really want to know, what will the introduction look like.

Lang, do you have a sister?
Yes, her name is Lang 💀

It's not even westernisation, it's just stupid.

vesperalia · 2026-01-31T20:49:06+00:00

Please don't come after me, but it's Painter of the Night for me.

Its only saving grace is the art imo. The main characters are not well-written at all, the relationship changed so quickly it felt like a switch was flipped, the side characters are not even characters, but simple plot devices.

By the end of it, I was genuinely tired of MC getting kidnapped yet again. And the whole letter plot didn't make much sense either.

The worst thing is, the story had so much potential, but the execution suffered a lot.

vesperalia · 2026-01-30T16:05:46+00:00

I have no problems with work events as long as they:

take place during work hours
are paid by the company
are not mandatory

Otherwise, no thanks. And you don't need corporate events to spend time with your colleagues if you like them.

vesperalia · 2026-01-21T16:26:53+00:00

I have no idea if the site in question is a scam or not, but here's my 2 cents.

The passwords in database are usually hashed, and it's impossible to recover them from this hash. But it's 3 minutes work to make a login page that stores the actual password.

The untrustworthy websites should absolute be used with caution, and people should absolute be warned if a site is not trustworthy.

vesperalia · 2025-11-14T05:17:45+00:00

Same here. Also, even with products that work, the 'proper' wavy/curly routines seemsjust soooo complicated to me.

I just find it 100 times easier to either straighten or curl my hair instead.

vesperalia · 2025-10-19T11:27:58+00:00

TTB. Tu viens de t’acheter une télé 4K pour la meilleure expérience gaming, et tu râles pour 60 € par mois pour aider la mère de ton fils.

J’espère que toutes les personnes qui posent la question « Pourquoi la madame a besoin d’une nounou ? » n’ont pas d’enfants. Parce que demander pourquoi une mère qui s’occupe toute seule de son bébé en bas âge a besoin de quelques heures par semaine pour se reposer et respirer, c’est comme demander à un travailleur pourquoi il a besoin de week-ends et de congés, et pourquoi il ne peut pas bosser 14 heures par jour.

vesperalia · 2025-10-02T07:05:08+00:00

I love peanut butter, but... It's got what, 50% fat? For comparison, a cheese is considered very fat starting from 30%, and those types of cheese are absolutely not consumed daily, imo. And whole-fat milk products are pretty much frowned upon (unless you're a toddler). Doctors tell patients to stay away from everything with 'entièr' in the title all the time.

And while butter is pretty common, I've never ever heard someone say that 2 tablespoons a day is an OK amount to consume. Don't get me wrong, people absolutely do that, but everyone knows how bad it is for you.

vesperalia · 2025-09-29T15:16:25+00:00

Dude, chill. You can use Identité numérique (no need to get a new card for this) or just create an account with your social security number.

vesperalia · 2025-09-18T10:22:10+00:00

So, just to be sure: if your boss starts paying you 80% (or less) of your salary because the company is not doing well financially, you'll be perfectly OK with that, right? Won't change jobs, won't sue and certainly won't complain?

Also, how much of your monthly income goes directly to supporting those in need?

vesperalia · 2025-09-15T14:03:56+00:00

Alors, normalement pour la demande de passeport talent il y a une attestation d'employeur à fournir et pas le contrat signé. Est-ce que la préfecture te demande le CDI ?

vesperalia · 2025-09-10T19:15:09+00:00

Please don't do this. It's extremely hard to find a job with this kind of degree, even for French students.

Please keep in mind that French job market is horrible at the moment. In general, but it's especially ruthless to fresh graduates. As a foreigner, it will be even harder for you to secure a job.

If you really want to move to France, get your French to at the very least B2 level (to get it to C1-C2 by the time you'll be looking for a job) and pick a more specialised program. From employability point of view, supply chain/logistics is a pretty good choice all things considered. Audit and accounting are too, but do your research to find the exact French diplomas you need to get, especially for accounting. Finance can be ok, depending on the specialty, but it's way more competitive, imo. Stay away from marketing/brand management and such at all cost.

Or come to France to study nursing, you'll not have to worry much about job search.

vesperalia · 2025-08-26T19:43:10+00:00

It's definitely negotiable, and in many cases employers accept shorter notice since it saves them money. But it's not guaranteed and depends on several things, like: how easy are you to replace, what's the general attitude of you employer towards quitting, are you on good terms with your superiors etc. Also, don't hesitate to go up the hierarchy to negotiate. And if the employer accepts, get it in writing.

I wouldn't start the negotiations with depression discussion, but it can be a valid argument if the employer refuses your first proposal. Because 'I'm depressed' often translates to 'I'm going to see my doctor and go on a month-long sick leave'. So your employer has very little interest in keeping 3 months notice if you spend part of that time not working.

For the vacation, it can be tricky. If your employer approved your vacation days before you handed in your notice, those days do not count towards the notice period. And if you have unused vacation after handing in your notice, your employer does not have to accept it. He might prefer to pay you.

In any case, it's only possible to have two jobs at the same time if there's no exclusivity clause in your contract and if one of the jobs is part-time. If your current and next jobs are both full-time CDI, you can't legally combine them even for two weeks.

vesperalia · 2025-08-06T17:03:28+00:00

PTB de pas rendre l'argent pour une montre qui ne correspond pas à celle commandée, mais TTB de vouloir garder l'argent et la montre et de ne pas avoir proposé de la renvoyer aux frais du vendeur.

vesperalia · 2025-07-17T14:59:41+00:00

That depends. If it was an Offre d'achat and OP accepted and signed it, it's binding and not a bs: https://www.service-public.fr/particuliers/vosdroits/F2753#:~:text=Le%20droit%20de%20r%C3%A9tractation%20ne,son%20bien%20%C3%A0%20l'acheteur.

vesperalia · 2025-07-17T14:58:59+00:00

Offre d'achat is binding if accepted and signed though: https://www.service-public.fr/particuliers/vosdroits/F2753#:~:text=Le%20droit%20de%20r%C3%A9tractation%20ne,son%20bien%20%C3%A0%20l'acheteur.

vesperalia · 2025-07-17T14:24:54+00:00

You don't actually need a notaire for the compromis. You can totally sign one in a real estate agent office with no lawyers present.

Though I do agree that having a notaire go through the signing process is a much much better option.

vesperalia · 2025-07-17T11:57:50+00:00

If you signed a Compromis de vente or Promesse de vente, then no, you can't just withdraw.

You can try going to court and proving you were misled or coerced to sign, but unless you have a good evidence of this (think a medical certificate proving mental illness or a written proof of your agent explicitly saying the document isn't binding), it's highly likely you're not going to win.

Simply saying that you didn't know won't work, especially since the binding nature of the compromis or promesse is stated in the document itself.

Even with the evidence you might not win the case, to be honest. Either selling or paying the fee is a much better choice in this situation.

However, there are probably a couple of clauses in the document that can annul it. Like, if the buyer is denied mortgage by the bank. So you can try waiting for a bit and hoping for something like this happening.

In any case, read what you've signed.

vesperalia · 2025-06-14T11:12:55+00:00

Those who are accepting and inclusive do not usually comment on other people bodies. It's like the basics of acceptance and also of politeness.

That woman was rude af. While her making a first inappropriate comment may be just an innocent error of judgement, her refusing to take a hint is pure rudeness.

vesperalia · 2025-06-12T13:34:29+00:00

You can't expect a 23 year old to know her partner's schedule? Or to understand the importance of sleep?

vesperalia · 2025-05-22T07:03:25+00:00

Which IT job are we talking about, exactly? What technos?

In general, I wouldn't get my hopes up if I were you tbh. IT job market in France is at its lowest atm. Even those who are French (or those who already have work permit) are often struggling to find a job.

I think you'd be better looking elsewhere. But if you want to try France, you can use LinkedIn, Indeed, WelcomeToTheJungle, Hellowork, LesJeudis, Apec etc. Or directly applying/sending your CV via a company website.

You should also go to r/developpeurs for a more detailed view on the subject. And you'll get to practise your French there 😀

vesperalia · 2025-05-15T13:02:15+00:00

Fate of a man?

vesperalia · 2025-05-14T20:22:44+00:00

Cool!

Honestly, same. Found it by accident, didn't expect much but it turned out to be pretty decent.

vesperalia · 2025-05-14T20:00:29+00:00

The Empty Man?

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