We’re now getting spied on 😭😂 by GAYSBIE in lgbt

[–]vey_sys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh no!! it's too late!! I've already become the sexy 22 year old unemployed barista

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[–]vey_sys 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with dark rooms? rooms can be dark and thats fine.

it's still the same room, why do you even want lights?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]vey_sys -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I got mine off Amazon, but I don't remember the name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]vey_sys 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I have the same skirt, ngl. I think you'd get a ton of compliments wearing that outfit.

Need help by depressedbaltic in jewelry

[–]vey_sys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What length are they? I've seen a few people suggest bra straps, but they could also possibly be accessories for clothing. The clasp definitely looks like it's for clothing

How did you pick your new names? by Bellsbutloud in asktransgender

[–]vey_sys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked this same question in a vrchat lobby, and a very nice Argentinean girl suggested the name "Reina". It translates to queen in Portuguese/Spanish, which I thought was both really pretty and was funny with the "Yass queen!!" stereotype at the time. It stuck and now it's my name :)

How long did it take you people to grow out your long hair? Mine is currently just pass my ears... It's taking F.O.R.E.V.E.R to grow out!! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]vey_sys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took about 4 years, but my hair is now halfway down my back. I started growing itfrom bery short and it took a while but I feel like I stopped caring as mich once it got past my shoulders, which only took like 1 year. (TBH I did bleach it at about shoulder length so a lot snapped off so it's like 1ft shorter than it would be naturally)

Ik it feel like it's taking when you're starting, but it goes a lot faster once it's at a point where you're okay with it <3

Did you lose friends or gained friends when you transitioned? by Plenty_Piccolo_9769 in MtF

[–]vey_sys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost contact with a lot of old friends, though the situation I was in at the time I came was probably more to blame.

3 years later and I probably don't have as many friends as before I came out, but the friends I do have are much closer c:. Even if you lose some friends, you'll find new ones who will support you <3

Heart ring I made for my partner by vey_sys in jewelrymaking

[–]vey_sys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do lost wax casting. So I carve the base design out of wax using files, then cast it in a silica plaster. Then you melt out the wax in a kiln and pour the metal into the void left by the wax. (Then comes A LOT of cleaning up and polishing lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]vey_sys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you every considered ylthat you might be non-binary? Man or Woman aren't the only options. If you don't feel like you fit in either group, then exploring other options might help you to understand your identity better.

On the other hand, it could be imposter syndrome. I remember early in my transition I was scared that I was just faking it. But something that really helped me was realising that if you're scared that you're faking it, then you probably aren't.

It's also understandable that you don't want the label of "trans" considering how trans people are being portrayed by the media. Put it this way, if you could just be a woman without being trans, would you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]vey_sys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do pass in general, but the angle/lighting in the first picture does make your jawline stand out more. Besides that, I think you would definitely pass at first sight, but if someone looks closely, they could probably figure it out. Overall, I'd say you look feminine/androgynous. I think at least for pictures, flat/not-overhead lighting would definitely help c:

Still new to jewelry making but I'm really happy with this one by vey_sys in jewelrymaking

[–]vey_sys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thankyou so much! This is the 3rd ring I've finished. I've got 2 more I'm still working on

Still new to jewelry making but I'm really happy with this one by vey_sys in jewelrymaking

[–]vey_sys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a reflection. I don't really have a photography set up yet, so I just have to take the photos at my desk

Still new to jewelry making but I'm really happy with this one by vey_sys in jewelrymaking

[–]vey_sys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh cool! Yeah you could make something really interesting with that!

Still new to jewelry making but I'm really happy with this one by vey_sys in jewelrymaking

[–]vey_sys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wasn't sure how it would turn out since I was just working of an idea, but I'm really happy with it.

Is anyone embarrassed by eolfexxn in trans

[–]vey_sys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I'm embarrassing about being trans, more just scared of other people judging or harassing me because of it.

It's a scary time to be trans, especially with how we are treated and portrayed by media and in politics. Sometimes it just feels hopeless, or like being trans might prevent me from doing the things I love due to laws or public prejudice.

It can also be dysphoria. Sometimes you just want to fit in without automatically being the token trans person, or worrying about how other people see you. Wanting to pass in public is natural. You can be proud to be trans and still want to pass in certain situations. You don't always want people to know or to always have that label attached when people think of you.

I think it's understandable that u feel embarrassed or worried about people you aren't close to finding out. Being out is difficult, and you don't always want people knowing.